He said ” I believe fervently that you’ll meet more compatible guy soon” Does that mean there’s no chance he change his mind? Does he feel inadequate/ insecure and thinks I deserve better guy?
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You've been friend zoned. Accept it and move on.
He said it was because of our different life goals. He told me our future plans don’t align. I asked him what plans didn’t align he said ”our goals just in general level don’t align”
Are you saying he wasn’t attracted to me?
Maybe.
Yes or no…
I say yes.
What made you think so?
Because he’s talking about other guys for you to meet.
Is that a sign he wasn’t attracted or that he felt inadequate?
Why don’t you ask HIM.
After those texts and wishing each other well etc I haven’t reached out to him and he hasn’t reach out to me. Last time we talked was 40 days ago.
He thinks he’s not the right guy for you
Why would guy think that?
No clue. Did he say why?
He said it was because of our different life goals. He told me our future plans don’t align. I asked him what plans didn’t align he said ”our goals just in general level don’t align ”
He doesn’t like you that way. If he’s telling the truth, it’s because you and him have different goals.
Find another guy. This one isn’t interested.
Do you think his reason wasn’t genuine?
I’m not sure but I think it was genuine
If it was because of our different goals like he said then why do you think he doesn’t like me like that?
That’s why. He doesn’t like you like that because you guys have different life goals.
Do you think he was insecure about pleasing me and felt inadequate? Also why would he use the word fervently?
I don’t think so but it’s possible. And he said fervently because he wanted to tell you that he really thought you’d find the right guy.
Why would he need to reassure that I’ll find the right guy.. it’s so annoying
I don't know. Maybe he’s trying to be nice?
He said “ Our future goals just don’t align general level. Because of that I fervently believe that you’ll find more compatible guy soon”
He’s not interested in you that way because you guys have different goals
Why didn’t he discuss about them and try to see if compromise could make etc?
Sometimes guys don’t want to compromise. They just don’t like you that way. Sorry girl.
Are you saying he wasn’t attracted to me?
I’m saying for whatever reason (probably the goals thing) he decided he wasn’t into you
Could he change his mind later?
Maybe. I don't know.
If he changes his mind should I give him second chance?
Yes. He sounds like a decent guy.
What shows he’s decent?
He’s telling you straight up that your goals aren’t the same. He’s not leading you on.
I gtg. Good luck girl. Have a great night.
Bye..