He got mad at me and started treating me badly for going to a friends kids baseball game and then he cut contact but stalks me. Why?

[Chillgal04]

Why did he cut contact and continue to creep on me?

is he still in love with me? Or is he bored? I have no idea why! Help me understand!

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry to hear about your situation. It's difficult to determine the exact reasons behind someone's behavior without more information, but I can offer some possible explanations based on general patterns of human behavior. Keep in mind that these are just speculations and may not accurately reflect your specific situation. It's important to consult with a professional or trusted individuals who can provide support and guidance tailored to your circumstances.

1. Insecurity or jealousy: It's possible that the person in question may have felt insecure or jealous about you attending the baseball game without them. This could have triggered negative emotions and caused them to react poorly.

2. Control issues: Some individuals exhibit controlling behaviors and become upset when they perceive a loss of control. Your decision to go to the baseball game without their approval may have triggered their need for control, leading to their negative treatment and subsequent stalking behavior.

3. Miscommunication or misunderstanding: It's possible that there was a miscommunication or misunderstanding between you and this person regarding your attendance at the baseball game. They might have expected you to prioritize their needs or spend time with them instead, leading to their negative response.

4. Personal issues: Sometimes, people's behavior towards others can be a reflection of their own personal problems or emotional struggles. They may have been dealing with internal issues that caused them to react poorly and subsequently engage in stalking behavior.

5. Unresolved conflicts or past issues: It's possible that there were unresolved conflicts or past issues between the two of you that resurfaced when you attended the baseball game. This could have reignited their negative feelings and led to their mistreatment and stalking behavior.

Regardless of the reasons behind their behavior, it's crucial to prioritize your own safety and well-being. If you feel threatened or uncomfortable due to the stalking behavior, consider reaching out to local authorities or a professional counselor who can provide guidance on how to handle the situation effectively.

[Chillgal04]

Thank you. This is exactly what I need to read and it all makes sense. He lied about the Gurl I was with and said she tried to kiss him, and she didn't. She is a friend of both of ours and I chose not to worry about the incident because it was petty to me. I was in the room and I k ow it didn’t happen so I had no reason to stop hanging out with her. He lied. He has done it before when I was hanging out with an another girlfriend. I see now…. he broke up that friendship too.

[strateguy632]

not in love with you, just mean kuz angry about the past.

[Chillgal04]

I get stalked cuz he’s mad about his past? He always did this when I was with anyone besides him even when he didn’t chose to be with me. He would throw an emotional fit and throw I. The towel. It happened a few times. I never understood why

[AaronKrieger]

What? Lmao

That sounds creepy as shit to me

[Iron_Man]

The problem is not the kid it must be the guy that you’re going with it’s jealousy

[Chillgal04]

It was one of my girl friends son believe it or not. And it was a women we both knew.

[Iron_Man]

Well, then he probably didn’t like her. That’s why It certainly wasn’t the kid it had to be here

[Iron_Man]

Next time you need to explain your questions better

[spartan55]

The why isn't important, the behavior is.

[Chillgal04]

Good point! I do have a tendency to get hung up on the why… thank you.

[spartan55]

You are welcome!