I had my first kiss today, and they guy I kissed asked me if I really never kissed anyone before because I was such a good kisser. He said I was a good kisser a few times. Do you think he really thought I was a good kisser, or was he just saying that because he could tell how nervous and insecure I was feeling? Is that just something guys say to women so that they continue making out with them?
Am I a really a good kisser?
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he was trying to get it again and then bang u
That’s what I was thinking. So he was lying?
he may not be.. but telling u this makes his intention clear that he wanna get it more
What is a kiss supposed to feel like?
u can dm me
Thank you 🙂 but I want to remain anonymous.
cool
He was trying to encourage you
So you think he was just being nice?
Well ya. You don’t have experience in kissing so he wouldn’t expect you to be good at it right?
Got it 👍🏻
But I guess you can try to kiss him again if you liked it
And I can tell you what a kiss should feel like
I didn’t really like it. It was like a slobbery vacuum. Is that what it’s supposed to feel like?
Oh no, it shouldn’t feel like that at all :(
Oh. Did I do something wrong?
Sounds like he used his tongue too much
You were new to it. But what kinda kiss was it?
I don’t know what you mean. Sorry lol
I mean there are lots of ways to kiss someone. Can you say what happened and who initiated?
Cuz if it felt like a vacuum I wonder what he was expecting
We were laying down watching tv and he turned my face towards him and kissed me.
Ok, then ya I can understand why it was slobbery
Why?
Because you were not in public so he didn’t have to rush it with a quick peck or just lips to lips. He felt relaxed and wanted you to kiss him back and be creative
I’m still confused. Sorry.
Thank you for being so helpful ❤️
You are welcome, I know you want to be anon. Guess you feel embarrassed? But yes there are different kisses and if he was sucking like a vacuum he may have been turned on
Yes, I am embarrassed 😳 I am so clueless when it comes to this.
Why would he be turned on by watching tv?
It wasn’t the tv that got him going. It was being near you and his mind started to think things
You are expected to be clueless as it wax your first kiss.
But I was in my PJS and had no makeup on.
You were in your pjs in a private room watching tv with a guy who wanted to kiss you. That’s enough
Oh. So do you think he likes me?
Guys don’t kiss a girl if they don’t like them. Yes he liked you until you kissed him.
So he doesn’t like me anymore?
I wouldn’t know. What happened after the kiss?
Well we kissed a lot and just talked a little bit in between the kisses and watched the show. Then he left. Before he left we kissed one last time and he rested his forehead on mine.
Then ya he wants to kiss you again
How do you know? Is it a guy thing?
It’s a guy thing. I guess you don’t want to kiss him again?
I don’t know lol
Why not? Like what are you worried about
I don’t know. 🙈
Then I can’t help you if you don’t know how you feel. Maybe take time to just write down all your feelings about him (positive and negative) and then you can read it and better understand all your emotions
Okay ❤️ That’s smart! Thank you for all your help 😊 I really appreciate it! You are so sweet! 🥰
You are welcome. Like I said before you could have followed me but I knew you are wanting to remain anon. So I’m sure you are a bit hesitant to type things here in public also and know that may be tough on you. But I’m trying to give you the guys perspective
Is being sweet a bad thing?