Guys, what makes you ignore a woman?

Question

You like her and all of a sudden, you just start ignoring her which is pretty obvious.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

That's going to depend on what kind of guy he is. If he's a player type, it probably means that he's busy with some other girl who was faster to give him what he wanted.

If he's a "relationship guy", then he probably discovered something about her that he considers a big red flag.

But it's also possible that something came up that he has to deal with - a business threat, a health emergency, a family problem, a financial crisis, or whatever.

Most men are not good at multi-tasking, and during a crisis, they need to maintain their focus. Changing his train of thought, especially when that also comes with a change of emotions, is mentally expensive and taxing for a man.

Sanser · Accepted Answer

If im atracted I won't but if after some time she doesn't reciprocate that tries of interact then i lose atraction and I start to do it... I was atracted to this girl and after some time trying to have conver and she answered like 1 per day or luckily 3 times andshe wasn't doing good conver, was like me asking and she answering, well I stoped trying, and she came saying why I was ignoring her... And I was like ¿huh?

Leapfrog00 · Answer

When I was with the one girl I almost married, when she started cheating on me, and threw it in my face she was cheating, I started ignoring her because she thought it was so hilarious to play with a guy's emotions. From my experience, there may be reasons why girls get ignored. If I were a girl and someone ignored me, I would probably ask the guy why he is ignoring me because I have a curious mind anyway.

I really believe though there are reasons why people get ignored. The girl I was with was a cheater, so I tried ignoring her attitude about it, but for some people, it might not even be a bad reason. The guy could be ignoring the girl unintentionally. Sometimes when I'm dating, I get so wrapped up in my writing or my job that I forget to call or text. I would rather the girl call or text anyway. I like knowing the girl is thinking about me! ::Sighs:: I miss dating.

joeND · Answer

Nagging or her prying, asking many personal questions especially like net worth, or credit score. I once couldn't get a Am Express card now I don't need credit. Think of the girls that missed out on me when I had no money who would love to be with me now and they would never have to work.

Spongebobssocks · Answer

Thats narcissim.  First step they lovebomb you, next one they ghost you. Then they come back and play mind games. Once they leave, close the door for good

Dan_cColt · Answer

If you aren't seeing reciprocation or just aren't feeling it anymore. Like when people say fell out of "love" type of deal, but I'd rather just break it up at that point than string her along cause that's just extra work for no reason if you clearly aren't feeling it anymore.

TaureanBull81 · Answer

I'll suddenly ignore a woman when I see 👀 her true colours show that exhibit nasty, negative traits toward others e. g. the way she speaks to and treats her friends and family members (disrespect, aggressiveness etc).

That I don't have time for!!

TallAnon · Answer

She did something that "gives me the ick". Could be an off-handed comment that comes across as racist, something about politics, being rude or generally uncooperative.
Basically, when I figure my life won't be better with her around.

Could also just be busy with other stuff, it happens.

SnowedIn · Answer

If I e already interacted with her, I won't ignore -- I'll tell her why I'm going to stop interacting with her. As for why, she's rude, she's unkind to other people, she won't put her phone away, etc.

crossdressingrihno · Answer

If I’m now ignoring her that most likely means I most likely came across something that that made me not want to be with her anymore.
It could’ve been a character flaw or it could’ve been that i didn’t like someone she associates with.

Vikkrram · Answer

She became ignorant towards me , she doesn't care about my feelings , she is just buisy in her own world. She makes me feel that i am only one who's putting the effort

monghjay2 · Answer

1) overly cocky

2) thinking they can't be judged ( bianca devins )

3) thinking we date you girls just for sex

4) being opportunist and wondering why bad things happen after

5) thinking you are better then us men, which is dumb cause we give you your rights as men

the list goes on

but basically women are an issue not worth dealing with

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Any kind of overbearing behavior. Aggressiveness. Neediness.  It's not that I'm intentionally ignoring the woman, it's that I'm taking my time to think about how I want to respond to her behavior.

spartan55 · Answer

I don't ignore anyone until they snub me. My pet peeve is when you meet someone and have a brief conversation THEN when you see them a week later they act like you don't exist. Hate that shit.

strateguy632 · Answer

if you mean "not reply to text messages" the jerks do that because they found a new lover but dont wanna tell you.

Adam1978 · Answer

She has revealed something that I don't like in a partner. So she is off the list. No point in wasting time with her anymore.

Sharkstealth · Answer

It's always me doing all the work so whether ignoring or talking to her it's the same anyways. I don't know of any women in my life who have gone out of their way to talk to me unless they were in a friend group who have abandoned me anyways.

Meropatrick · Answer

If she is a bad person or a bitchy person, if she is two faced, if i found out she is bad mouthing me behind my back then smiling to me in the face. If she is a cheater.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

She is contemptible. Or a trusted coworker has dirt on her.

Sparkie460 · Answer

If I found out that she's not the person I thought she was. I wouldn't just ignore her though, I'd approach her and ask about my findings. I have never just ghosted a woman

RavVid · Answer

Something said or done that I don't approve of such as taking something

Christoff92 · Answer

Attitude and hot head temper also moody face. Being pretty doesn't mean a thing to me unless her mind is also pretty 😊

Hardworkingguy · Answer

When' she has a horrible personality or attitude. If that's the case it doesn't matter how attractive she is

kakaling · Answer

When I realized she enjoy companionship of other males too much. I don't like girl having too many guy friends.

LiamJHayden · Answer

If she blows me off I will not initiate interaction with her.

Bobbysworld · Answer

When their drama queens and blow things out of proportion

Reorx · Answer

Games / leaves me confused. This is the only reason I'll flat out ignore a woman.

justabuddy · Answer

Drama and irrational behavior. When she shows signs she might put me in a bad spot.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

High drama. Entitlement.

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Negative mindset Stupidity

LostandFound__x · Answer

Some guys get scared.

stratford · Answer

When she becomes too controlling.

TooHot2Care · Answer

My attention isn't free.

Andres77 · Answer

There’s ignoring and there’s being busy.

soe11 · Answer

Dishonesty, and disloyalty

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

If she's rude.

PointTaken · Answer

She lied or tried to manipulate.

AngryCarl2 · Answer

Abject terror.

msc545 · Answer

Anger, name calling.

Fuentes · Answer

Probably annoying lol

BLP11520 · Answer

Attitude and negativity

EaterPeter · Answer

All my efforts are not leading to sex.

vj0090 · Answer

Arrogance and attitude...

Cheerfull009 · Answer

Negative attitude

Juxtapose · Answer

Entitlement.

In_Trance · Answer

Negative energy

niiffs · Answer

When she isn't cute

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