I fought with my husband and I am disturbed?

[Anonymous]

We had a silly argument and it turned serious fast. He insulted me and i insulted him back. Regardless of who is at fault i feel like I can’t sleep or feel good because we are on bad terms. I have been missing my period a lot because of stress and now with us fighting i feel more stress and anxiety. I feel like the right thing would be for me to apologize even if he did me wrong because i feel very stressed and unsettled about us fighting. Thoughts?

[RavVid]

Why not - get things normal and one of you has to make the first move and you can apologize for your part of the fighting.

What was the fight about? You need to deal with the cause. I think a lot of unresolved issues are around what a good spouse should be but it comes out in other ways. One girlfriend often would not acknowledge that I had spoken to her and that just made me angry. So we would end up in a fight over another matter after I battered into acknowledging. We didn't last long of cause.

[DarkWinterNights]

Even if you’re right, being the better person and taking responsibility is often the best move. I don’t know about everyone else, but when I’ve calmed down I’m a lot more likely to apologize myself if extended an olive branch.

[Anemone978]

Do not apologize.. if you do that it will become a thing where even when he is wrong he will never apologize. You will start to despise him in the long run. I would suggest just being normal with him tomorrow or ask if he wants to talk, but don't apologize if he isn't willing to as well because eventually he is gonna believe he was in the right and you are always wrong that is the first step into misery. Guys are dumb assholes always remember that :D

[Whatthefluff]

You should try to never go to bed still angry at each other. Apologize and have a conversation about it. We all argue, but it’s important to communicate and come to terms.

[MementoMori777]

why not have a proper discussion about it and try settling things

[mommymommymommy]

Married too early. How old are you?