What do you think causes incels to be incels and how can this be prevented without harming a potential incel?

[Buffotine1996]

[Billlewis]

The primary reason for the huge increase in the number of guys who are unable to have intercourse with an attractive woman nowadays is because the requirements for a guy to get his dick inside a beautiful woman's pussy have increased substantially, and many guys are unwilling to meet those requirements. If I want to buy a house, and the average home price in my area exceeds what I can afford, I have to come up with a larger down payment to buy a home. If I'm not willing to do that, then I'll have to keep living in an apartment. As to the question about what should be done to help incels -- women, please just keep teasing the living shit out of us, because that's exactly what we need, if we're ever going to improve the quality of our lives.

[CaptainSmartass]

I would say its all down to a lack of social skills and outlets to practice those skills.

Simples...

[jennifer_bloom]

I think one thing that keeps people locked in isolation is they never felt their thoughts and feelings were valid and acceptable or understandable so they view themselves as guilty or irreconcilable and avoid contact and honest disclosure out of a fear of micromanaging or backlash.

[LazerBean]

Their parents didn't teach them enough social skills and responsibility.

[In_Trance]

Getting abused as a child

[Buffotine1996]

What about young men who were abused and able to get a woman?

[In_Trance]

All childhood traumas surface in relationships

Just because he got her doesn't mean he'll keep her