This guy at work is very polite but a bit tense or distant with me and rarely smiles when he talks with me. Many women seem to gravitate towards him because he is gentle and attractive and I get the feeling that he knows that he is hot.
He offers me help and answers my work related questions but even then tries to keep it very short with me despite him being a chatty person with everyone else. I tend to be a bit standoffish around men I find attractive and only approach him with questions when it is absolutely necessary.
Could he know that I find him cute? And what would be the signs that he knows I'm attracted in case he likes me and if he doesn't like me?
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What is he supposed to yell at her? I'm typically pretty soft spoken in public because I don't like people eavesdropping on my ist and it's how i'm trained to talk, plus that way when I'm not quiet, people understand some ist real fast.
No but with others he tends to be louder and more outgoing
Maybe she seems fragile and he doesn't want to freak her out
What would make a person appear fragile to you?
Or it's all in her head.
A thousand things. You ought to know if you come off that way or not.
None of it means anything. Get back instead of doing surveillance on colleagues.
will do, thanks
You have to just ask him. Look tbh Assumptions can get totally wrong.
I don't want to ask a married guy if he thinks I have a crush on him. :D
If he is married then ma'am please don't initiate anything.
I don't want to initiate anything. I just want to know if my attraction is that obvious and if I should change anything about my behaviour
Don't change anything ma'am you would end up in awkwardness