Guys, During casual sex, why would a guy press your face cheeks with his hands and constantly look into your eyes?

[Anonymous]

[spartan55]

That's something some people do during sex. It doesn't mean anything.

[RespectfulGuy]

He's a hopeless romantic.

Next time tell him to kiss you.

[Asker]

oh, he was constantly.

[Anonymous]

Of course.

[Asker]

Of course it means something or it doesn't in your opinion?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, I misread the question; I missed the "why". He would do that to make it feel more intimate for you.

[Asker]

Why bother though?

[Opinion Owner]

Usually it is a power play. Other times it is because of a deep infatuation.

[Asker]

Can you elaborate please?

[Opinion Owner]

It is a dominant move. Placing your hands on someone else's cheeks demands their attention on you.

[Asker]

Constant kissing and eye contact. Perhaps a manipulation tactic?

[Opinion Owner]

Just the hands on the cheeks

[Asker]

I think he wanted to get a reaction out of me.

[Asker]

Maybe make it more intimate for him because he wants to attention?

[Opinion Owner]

He definitely wants the attention

[Asker]

Perhaps to fill a void. I mentioned to the guy about possibly using toys next time and his response was not enthusiastic? Could he have been offended?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe, I am hesitant about toys as well. If they are for her, no problem; but if they are for me, I have many questions.

[Asker]

No, they were for me. It was just odd.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe he feels emasculated?

[Asker]

That's my hunch. After that no contact. Tried to explain I had a great time but that wasn't enough.