I asked my boyfriend jokingly " what will you do if I throw your phone" and he replied" I will throw you" could it be a red flag?

[Anonymous]

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Hello everyone, I appreciate all of your opinions. While I understand all of your views regarding my question, I'm not a kind of a person who is that much aggressive that I start throwing others properties or start beating them or be violent. I can't even kill a cockroach at my house😄😄. And I had immediately told him that I was just joking about that thing and I would never ever do that in real. And yaa I was not even testing him guys. Why would I test him where I'm not gonna do that in real.

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I didn't mean that and he was not either. I just asked question out of curiosity. Anyways thanks all of you guys that I got to know all of your view points regarding it.

[Finchie40]

He was more than likely joking back with you , don’t take it to heart unless he lives on his phone constantly when he is around you then you should throw his phone , if he ends up throwing you after you do that then he is definitely being up to no good on his phone 🤩

[236color]

Yes, it's a red flag to him to dump your ass. You're testing him by threatening to destroy/damage expensive equipment on a whim. Yeah somebody failed the test, but it wasn't him.

[Kelly6]

No it’s not.

if you throw his phone then you are red flag for him and he should leave.

[provokeesmokee]

No, but your question is.

[OlderAndWiser]

My girlfriend asked, "what will you do if I throw your phone?" Is it a red flag?

[Asker]

Haha good ans

[AviatorTom]

That's not a joke!!!

It's a red flag for your boyfriend. Why would you even suggest that? Threatening to invade his privacy and destroy his property? Get a life girl!

[magiusX26]

what was going through your mind to even come up with the question you asked him. there is little to no legitimate reason for asking him that as it is a question built to elicite a harsh countering response (aka shit testing/mind games) . honestly, if i was him and you asked that, i would dump you because of the mind games alone you used, and it would not matter how long we had been together, nor our romantic history. you would, at best, be somebody that i used to know.

[Nik1hil]

Your question was a Joke, consider His answer a Joke too..

And if you don't have capacity to handle a Joke, the. Don't Joke around..

[Truthatanycost]

Yes you could definitely be a red flag talking about something like that.

[Truthatanycost]

'And yaa I was not even testing him guys. Why would I test him where I'm not gonna do that in real. '
That's exactly how those sort of tests are done... they even have a name for them. Furthermore not everyone that uses such tests are even fully aware they are doing them, or why...

[DiegoO]

Your question is a red flag itself. Why would you trow his phone?

[inhua]

how does someone fail the same shit-test they try to conduct on someone else?

[boobliker]

why you started it, why would do a bad thing? just to wind him up!

[DextroShade]

I think it's a red flag that you think it's a red flag.

[Drumlin2001]

Why would you be throwing his phone? Can you not control yourself?

[Anonymous]

A red flag of what? That you're antagonistic?

[Staximus]

Not a red flag. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes!

[Anonymous]

Only if he is a violent person, or means what he says.

[Asker]

He has an invisible kind of anger like if he is angry he won't talk to me well for a week

[Opinion Owner]

That's not good.

[NotInterestedSorry]

If he threw her phone that is not a red flag if he done it after she threw his phone. I would also throw someone phone if they dared threw my phone. Phones are expensive

[spartan55]

You are the red 🚩 flag here.

[Fuentes]

Sounds like a joke

[jahaims]

You made a joke and he joked back

[Asker]

I think so

[aaron210419]

No, it's an appropriate response

[hardboiledink]

That you wanted to throw his phone? Yes

[SnowedIn]

Not a red flag

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend likes to throw me in the bed

[Anonymous]

both of you's are red flags

[sirderpsalot123]

. No

[MissBoogus]

No lol

[Nemesis2k7]

You threatened him..

[negrl4a69]

Red flag red flag