How do you know when a man loves you?

[Anonymous]

What are some of the signs a man is genuinely falling in-love or is in-love?

[abc3643]

You'll know.
Men reveal their emotions through their actions.

For example, 33 years ago, I fell in love with this one woman. She broke my heart (and it is still broken all these years later - it was 33 years ago TODAY that she realized I was into her).

Anyway, I think this was about 2-4 months after she dumped or maybe even when we were together, we got into a discussion in which she told me she used to ask her previous boyfriends:

"What would you do if I got pregnant?"

First, I was surprised because the question was sort of moot; she wanted to be a virgin until marriage and I respected that. But, I was more surprised by this, so I asked:

"Cyn, why didn't you ask me that question?"

She replied:

"Because I already knew what the answer was."

Now, that could be because I was OK with waiting until marriage, but I think it was moreso that she knew I was totally in love with her. I would have supported whatever decision she would have made, but she also knew that I was very good with kids so, if she had decided to keep the hypothetical baby, she knew I'd be a father to it and that I wanted to marry her anyway (which I very much did and it still hurts).

My point in this is that, regardless of any words that I spoke to her, she KNEW that I loved her completely because of how I was with her the whole time we were together.

[slatyb]

You can't ever know, because love is a feeling. All you can know is how he treats you. If he treats you with love and kindness, that's at good as it gets. People can be perfectly loving for years and then suddenly leave. All relationships end. Enjoy it while it lasts.

[slatyb]

OTOH if he doesn't treat you well, then it doesn't matter whether he says that he loves you.

[DerekC321]

He wants to spend all his time with you. And you can tell he's attracted to you.

[Anonymous]

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[Asker]

y'all aren't going to tell no secrets

[Opinion Owner]

There's no secrets to tell. A guy let's you know. If you don't want to make the effort to observe and learn then you don't deserve to know.
Common sense. If you make effort towards him and he doesn't make effort back. There's your sign he's not interested.
I'll ALWAYS make an effort with a woman I value. But that's a two way street.

[In_Trance]

You ask him

[Asker]

Why when all men lie 😌

[In_Trance]

If you really believe that then what are you even doing?