Paying for naked pictures , why?

[Keljel123]

Around May this year I went on my partners phone and discovered he'd been paying for naked pictures etc on an app called ' tango' . I was furious , hurt and had just found out I was pregnant with our second child. I'd said I was absolutely against him doing anything like this!! He said it was an addiction that got out of hand. We had many discussions and I thought we'd had a clear understanding he was not to do it ever again!
Fast forward to today , ( 22 weeks pregnant ) he left his phone on the side , I had a look , and low and behold he has yet again been on the app as recently as Thursday paying again for pictures !
I haven't mentioned it to him yet, how do I bring it up again?
I'm being lied too, I'm being disrespected , I just don't know what to think anymore. He’s not deprived of any intimacy so I can’t understand it.
From a man’s point of view what the hell is this?

[SueShe]

Your partner is a compulsive liar and cheater and there is no excuse for his behavior.

Yes, paying for pornographic content while in a relationship and after having clearly been told to refrain from downloading and paying for pornography, this is emotional cheating.

Your only way out of this situation is to give him an ultimatum that he has no option but to follow if he does not want to be faced with dire consequences.

You tell him that you insist that he seeks professional medical help and that you want to be with him when he goes to those therapy sessions. That is the only way that he would see the gravity of his acts. Furthermore, paying for pornography also deprives you from potential revenue that you could use for your unborn baby. Good luck.

[Tamera952]

Who the fuck, in this day & age, PAYS for naked pictures in the first place? I mean, I get it if it’s an Only Fans thing, where I guess you would be a fan, but with the internet AWASH in the most extreme & traffic porn of all types for FREE, why oh why would anyone pay? I don’t get that part.

[BoopBoopBeep]

From a man's point of view you're getting dumped for going through my phone without asking, which is a huge invasion of privacy and a disregard for personal boundaries. I doubt it just happened to be on the "receipt" page or whatever that showed his purchase.

From your point of view, he's at least intending for more than just pictures from these women or he's an imbecile. There's too many free pictures out there to need to pay for it unless you want it from THIS particular women. He's clearly making bad financial decisions.

How are the women he's paying for different looking than you? I mean literally... they're blonde you're a brunette, they're Asian you're white, you've got 50lbs on them, they're shorter... what is it that he's looking at?

[Lionman95]

From a guy's point I would say your man has a porn addiction and isn't ready to acknowledge that. He's paying for it because he developed a connection to the platform and thinks he can handle it on his own. I think that's not uncommon but it could only be stopped with him looking for help and acknowledge that he has a problem. Either by asking friends for him to be accountable to them or by going to therapy. But it's something he needs to realise you can't do it against his will.

[Lionman95]

Thanks for the MHO, I wish you good luck for the future.

[DryGermanGuy]

I don’t get it either… If I had been a banker in the past and someone wanted a credit to create OnlyFans, I would have laughed and argued that the whole internet is filled to the brim with free content and nobody would pay. But apparently I would have been wrong? 🤔🤷‍♂️

[Billlewis]

I often pay for pictures of the bare feet of the superior alpha male who's dating a beautiful woman whom I'm awestruck by.

[Anonymous]

You would be surprised what men will pay for.

[Bklynbadboy12]

He's a trick ans he's weak

[In_Trance]

Toxic femininity