Why do men use rejection as an excuse to be a dick to girls?

[catarecute]

i feel that men think after they reject a girl that can call them names a bully them and make the girl look like she is just being whinny about the rejection. seriously men can be such bullies. its not ok to call people names whether you rejected them or not.

[ImHere22]

Because a lot of guys are immature, fragile little boys who can't see the world further than the end of their noses.

A girl rejects you? Oh well, move on. Those guys who flip out and become the girl's tormentor? Well those guys grow up to be even larger pricks who continue pushing others around, getting ridiculously bad spray tans that turn their skin orange, even worse haircuts that make them look permanently disheveled, are notoriously bad with money and have gone bankrupt more times than than seconds in the day, and cannot for all the money in the world, speak a single coherent paragraph without sounding like a total idiot, aka: those men are all tRump.

Stay away from them

[inhua]

only a small percentage of guys are in any position to reject any girl and when they do, they get called out for it e. g. fatphobic

meanwhile girls have no problem not only rudely and harshly rejecting guys but going as far as to encourage other girls to reject the guy also

and society allows them to do so but standing up against this bullshit gets you more ridiculed. basically they justify victims of bullying deserve more bullying

[catarecute]

well i am not fat and i was rejected so harshly by a guy i am still scared three years later. i am not ugly i used to do modelling i am healthy, healthy weight, good health. and would have been willing to change for this guy. i have rejected men but never bullied them. in fact i hate rejecting men its so unpleasant for me.

[Inbox]

@catarecute Got rejected harshly once? Twice? Well…. welcome to a man’s world. We have to keep overcoming that pain, while all women have to do is simply yes to talking, yes to giving out your #, yes to a date, yes to kissing him, yes to letting him bang you, etc.

[catarecute]

@Inbox well the internet is a good cause to all dating problems. before the interent people had a soul. the believe in true love and simple things like having kids playing music, singing playing in woods. people now get influenced by media and the Kardashian. its a real nightmare. i think the answer to mens problems is date smart girls with a good soul. if you go to materialistic girls you will get rejected. have a good moral compass go to church (or whatever religion you practice) and look for a kind person.

[Inbox]

@catarecute …. that’s what I do - I would never choose plastic over platinum like my former ex who is a Catholic!

[Anonymous]

Girls can be bullies too. A big scandal at my school was when this guy who rejected a girl, and she confronted him at his lockers and kicked him in the balls and he needed surgery and missed school.

Because her family donated lots and lots of money to the school every year she got away with it and while he recovered he got married and up til today I met his wife and she said he can't have kids.

So was he wrong to rejected her? All people are assholes

[catarecute]

sick. a man rejected me once i was real hurt but i would never do that that's so sick. a girl did that to a guy at my school she did it for fun and about three times. i felt so sorry for him.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah. They chalked it up to her not understanding the severity of kicking a guy there and she got off with a warning.
I know he's been married for three years now but failed to get his wife pregnant. I wonder if he thinks about the incident everytime his wife brings it up...

[catarecute]

thats why when i have kids i dont want to send my kids to school i want my kids to be home schooled tbh. most peoples life trauma happen at school. this girl reminds me seriously of this girl at my school. she did this to the guy and laughed. . but then kids are thick as shit. so you wonder what the adults were doing in those moments.

[Opinion Owner]

he was a jerk but he didn't take it seriously.. and it's seriously so messed up that her kick messed him up for life just because he hurt her feelings. and not just him, but also his wife now because he can't even properly fulfil his duty as a man.
why did this girl at your school do that?

[MJtheCoach]

Here’s how it works when SImPS kiss girls a22, girls become entitled when they become entitled they reject a guy in a b##chy way. When they do that alpha male will put them in their place to create social corrections..
but if the girl rejects a guy in a gentle nice way. A confident guy would say OK. & he’ll walk away..

[Inbox]

…. Yup

[Flatmanlewis]

What he said!

[Glocksmyth]

Well in my opinion you'd have to look at what led up to the rejection.

For example when I was rejected byy first crush it hurt a lot because, it was my first it left a very bad feeling in me made me feel incompetent because I gave it my all and still got rejected, but hey nothing much I could do about it, after that I wasn't a dick to girls if anything I felt scared of them for years, scared that no matter how hard I try I won't be enough or I'd still get rejected.

[catarecute]

the question is about when its the man who rejects the girl.

[LiamJHayden]

How rude. I would never belittle someone who had the courage to ask, even if she did not interest me.

[ProbablyClueless]

Insecure people tend to take that insecurity out on others. Unfortunately, this is something that a lot of women will do too.

[catarecute]

yea i used to do it. i used to reject men just to make me feel good about myself. i am not justifying myself but they weren't so nice. i have not excuse i know it was wrong. its such a dick move. i grew out of this thankfully but most people never grow out of it.

[Billlewis]

I think they use it as an excuse to be dicks to everyone.

[catarecute]

yea its stupid they make sure they do it in front of their friends to show off. really the friends just think what a complete dick this guy is and the girl is a complete idiot for liking him.

[Billlewis]

Not being able to have intercourse with a woman isn't an excuse for rude, boorish behavior. I'm essentially involuntarily celibate myself, but I'm nevertheless very happy and fulfilled.

[Billlewis]

I just started following you and I'd be thrilled if you would follow me as well if you want.

[Kelly6]

this is a great question.

would like to read answers of

[AmeerX]

It's really bad to bad mouth a person if they rejected you and even worst to bad mouth them if you rejected them.

My friend got the former and it was really sad but we used to tolerate it as he was wronged.
But in the later case the guy deserves some heat too

[Chthou95]

Imagine if an ugly guy turn down an attractive women who's a 8 or 9. You think she'll take it lightly?

[catarecute]

i don't get this question. this post is about a man rejecting a woman then bullying her about it.

[Chthou95]

The point is that women are cry babies about it too. Sure its not as common but then again how many men have women approaching them? Not many

[catarecute]

well i approach men when i really like them. some reject me but some reject me then bully me after. it hurts a lot especially when i love them so much.

[Chthou95]

I don't care about what you do sweet heart. Im talking in general

[AngryCarl2]

A dick doesn't need an excuse to be a dick. It's his nature.

[Anonymous]

For the same reason women think they can use wanting attention as a legitimate reason to lead men on.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Cause some guys are immature and can't handle rejection

[eagle1951]

you need better men to date, or maybe that's the way it is these days

[catarecute]

its so sad yea i think society is making people narcissists

[eagle1951]

somewhere in life what was being taught has been left out

[catarecute]

its cause of bad parenting. all the men who are happily married had parents that taught them to respect women.

[eagle1951]

I agree, I was married 37 years , she passed 5 years ago

[Anonymous]

Yeah, it works both ways. I would never do this to a girl I had just rejected but it happens to both genders.

[Anonymous]

The same reason some women do the same to men, they are assholes.

[catarecute]

its sad. yea i seen women do it to men as well.

[Opinion Owner]

Some people just suck. If someone rejects you like that, be glad they rejected you, it means you dodged a bullet. Would you really want to be with someone who treats other people like that?

[BLP11520]

Immaturity and a lack of character