When I first started with the office, my coworker and I would talk on the phone daily. We would Snap on occasion, consult with each other on work related issues, and generally vent to each other. Over the past month he started to become a little more distant but was still responsive until two weeks ago. At that point he has completely stopped responding to any method of communication. He has not answered work related to emails, or any of my attempts to reach out to determine what happened to cause the relationship to turn south. I’m at a loss as I feel like I lost a reliable friend and I cannot figure out what would have caused the deterioration.
Dang, that is weird that he's totally ghosting you out of nowhere. A few things could be goin on:
- He might have got in trouble for using work stuff for personal chatting or something and has to cut that off now. Some bosses ain't cool with it.
- Possibly something happened on his end that's got him preoccupied and he ain't handling it well. Family stuff, relationship drama, who knows.
- Could be he accidentally snapped at you about something and now feels awkward. Or thinks you might be mad at him for whatever reason even if you're not.
- Some guys just suck at communication. Maybe he's bad at confrontations and is avoiding it by not responding at all.
My advice would be don't take it personal. Send him one more polite, casual message like "Hey everything alright? Haven't heard from you in a while.” If he still leaves you on read, then oh well.
Focus on work stuff only from now on if you gotta interact. And maybe find a new buddy at the office so you're not left hanging if he keeps up the silent treatment. His problem not yours! On to the next one.
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