JUST CURIOUS WHY ARE THEY NERVOUS?

[claudia32]

During a talking stage, if everything goes well why is the boy nervous to ask the other person (girl) if they wanna be his girlfriend? What makes them scared or is it just rejection? Especially if the other person is so pretty, cuz to me when he asked he seemed so nervous

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And after four dates is it too early (even if everything goes well and get along great and have so many similarities to ask to be their girlfriend?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, there's definitely some nerves that kick in when asking a girl to be your girlfriend. Even if things seem to be going well, rejection is always a possibility and that's scary!

I think for a lot of guys, especially if the girl is really good-looking, there's this fear that she's out of your league. Like why would she want to be with me when she could easily get with someone "better"? So then you start doubting yourself.

Plus you really like her and don't wanna mess things up. What if you ask and she says no, then it gets awkward between you? Rather just keep things cool as they are than risk losing her, you know?

I'd say the fear of rejection is a big part of it. Takes guts to put yourself out there. But if you really click with her, she probably feels the same way too. Easier said than done, but try mustering up that confidence! The worst she can say is no, and at least then you know. Good luck!

[Evelyn99]

Fear of rejection.

[claudia32]

Just wondering why is that if they are in the talking stage