Why are guy so intimidated by confidence?

[PreciousJewel]

[jennifer_bloom]

My experience is that a lot of guys want a girl with less strength and audacity then themselves, cause they want a woman with behaviour that is predictable that does not threaten their sense of comfort or personal boundaries. I remember when a guy maligned me with incorrect statements about my behaviour and when I was able to prove to him he was incorrect, I asked him to go to the people he slandered me to to tell them he made an error in judgment and he refused to do it cause he could not handle the humiliation of being viewed as a liar and false witness, so he was just going to let the people he slandered me to believe the incorrect things he said about me.

Later when I was verbally hostile with him for refusing to go to the people he talked to about me and apologize, he accused me of humiliating him and harassing him because I made him anxious and agitated with my demanding nature. He even threatened to punch me in the face if I embarrassed him further. Apparently I was no longer worthy of respect in his eyes because my personality had made him uncomfortable. He is now morbidly obese which I think is punishment for refusing to tell people he made an error in judgment.

[Nikki1989]

Some have control issues, so they feel threatened.

[PreciousJewel]

Us girls are just too hot for them

[caring__1]

Confidence is believing in yourself. When people feel a need to prove that to others and be in their face, that shows insecurity, not confidence. Not all men like the competition that comes from the second perceived confidence. It's not that they're intimidated; some people just don't want to bother with those who have that attitude. Divas can be seen as confident, yet that behavior can be a turn off to others. Truly confident people aren't threatened by differences in others and don't push their agenda onto others. If it's obvious, it's not confidence.

[SotiCoto]

Not applicable. They aren't. But as with confidence in men, it is a multiplier. If they're deemed attractive then it makes them more attractive, and if they're deemed unappealing, it makes them come across as a skeevy creep. No wants to be hit on by someone they find ugly and annoying.

[clampfan101]

Being intimated can mean they like that about them. I’m intimidated by gorgeous women, but not because I don’t like them. Quite the opposite. Same for confidence, intelligence, creativity, etc. When I’m intimidated by women I’m questioning my own value, not theirs.

[clampfan101]

Questioning if I’m in her league, basically.

[Anonymous]

The only thing a man may be intimidated by when it comes to a girl is her looks. Other than that it’s not intimidation, it’s usually because she’s annoying that men don’t want to deal w her. But women tell theirselves these things to make them feel better about their situation, usually about being single. Most single women who can’t find a man are usually argumentative, masculine, things men don’t want.

[PreciousJewel]

I'm femininity itself

[Opinion Owner]

Then you shouldn’t have a problem w men. Not the way masculine women do.

[NavyOU37]

I am not intimidated by confidence at all. The problem for us guys is that confidence normally means a high maintenance, never happy, rude, money hungry woman.

[Miristheiss]

Intimidated by confidence?

Give me an example? Define the actions/behaviors you are defining as being/acting confident?

[aceleon]

confidence is not feminine enough.

also confidence and vanity is 2 thing that looks so similiar to each other and no one likes a vain woman (aside from cucks/simps)

[PreciousJewel]

How is it not feminine

[aceleon]

confidence creates a strong look but as long as feminity and masculinity goes the one who seeked to be stronger is guys, a womans strenght is irrevelant to mans while womans like generally strong guys (not talking about physical one but it can be added to the list too)

[Anonymous]

Ugh. Another woman who thinks men are scared of their “confidence.”

You know who says that?

Women that no one likes being around.

[PreciousJewel]

I love how everyone I want to be around me is always around me

[Opinion Owner]

Then why ask the question about men being intimidated?

Clearly they are avoiding you enough to warrant making a post about it.

🙄

[PreciousJewel]

Who said I was being avoided?

[Opinion Owner]

You did.

[PreciousJewel]

I never said that, dear.

[NathanDavis]

I'm not... I absolutely love it...

[PreciousJewel]

You're in the minority

[NathanDavis]

and all my girlfriends had that genuinely confidence about them...

I wouldn't like it any different from that

[Billlewis]

I love confident, assertive women, and if she happens to be a little arrogant, all the better.

[rigmarole]

Men aren't intimidated by confidence. You're just not attractive.

[PreciousJewel]

I'm really attractive.

[rigmarole]

Yeah that's why no one wants you and you claim everyone is "intimidated" by you. Anytime a women claims men are "intimidated" is a direct confession that the women is unattractive.

[PreciousJewel]

Funny thing is a lot of men want me but tell me my confidence will probably make them insecure

[rigmarole]

It's not you it's me... lol

[spartan55]

"I'm really attractive' with no humility...

[PreciousJewel]

@spartan55 am I supposed to lie then?

[spartan55]

@preciousjewel
Anyone who has to point out how great/rich/hot/etc to everyone is someone to be avoided. Let others say it.

[PreciousJewel]

@spartan55 I love myself

[spartan55]

That's great. You still have no humility though.

[PreciousJewel]

@spartan55 I don't need that.

[spartan55]

You sure do, not sure where you got that idea.

[PreciousJewel]

Why would I have that idea if it wasn't true

[spartan55]

Lol... of course.

[jahaims]

They aren't. If a guy is that just means he isn't confident.

[jahaims]

is that way it just*

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Because if you are confident you might realize he’a not that good for you.

[Yannae]

I'm not intimidated by confidence at all. But I get annoyed by people who are arrogant and show attitude.

[Anonymous]

If by confidence you mean being a slut, it just doesn't appeal to me.

[PreciousJewel]

That's different

[HouseMoat]

Like this?

https://www.youtube.com/embed/cwLRQn61oUY

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'm not. Don't stereotype.

[PreciousJewel]

Why can't I stereotype? Men do it all the time too. Oh oops, did it again.

[TheSpaceGnome]

You're a retarded person, got it.

[Worst]

you sound more arrogant than confident

[PreciousJewel]

You don't even know me

[Worst]

yeah lol i dont want to

[PreciousJewel]

Great, we're on the same page!

[Worst]

yeah lol i just said that

[PreciousJewel]

Yeah I know

[Worst]

ok great

[Worst]

sex by the way?

[PreciousJewel]

Is that what you ask every girl on here

[Worst]

no lol i only ask the men

[PreciousJewel]

Great come suck this cock

[Worst]

dont threaten me with a good time

[PreciousJewel]

What if I am though

[Worst]

guess i'll have to take action

[PreciousJewel]

Guess you have to

[Worst]

gimme dat dick

[PreciousJewel]

Okay just did it

[Worst]

wow u have a great dick

[PreciousJewel]

You like this one inch, baby?

[Worst]

thats more inches than i have lol yeah its great thanks for sharing

[PreciousJewel]

You don't need inches if you have me to compensate

[Worst]

shit lol you wearing the dick in this relationship

[PreciousJewel]

Yeah I am

[Worst]

great thats the way i like it

[PreciousJewel]

Well it couldn't be any other way with you

[Worst]

it can be if one desires so

[PreciousJewel]

Very flexible of you

[Worst]

im a pleaser, what can i say

[PreciousJewel]

Sure hun

[Worst]

nice talking to you

[PreciousJewel]

I know

[Worst]

i'll be hungry later

[PreciousJewel]

Come get more dick then

[Worst]

yeah lol thats why i said that

[PreciousJewel]

I know I'm not dumb

[Worst]

what are you

[PreciousJewel]

The best

[Worst]

shit lol what i am

[PreciousJewel]

The worst

[Worst]

how'd you know

[PreciousJewel]

It's written on your dick

[Worst]

yeah lol based asf

[PreciousJewel]

Didn't know how it had the space for it anyway

[Worst]

im a grower

[PreciousJewel]

Keep telling yourself that

[Worst]

ok lol... im a grower

[PreciousJewel]

Good boy

[Worst]

you're heading into uncharted waters

[PreciousJewel]

There's a first for everything

[Worst]

you have a way with words

[PreciousJewel]

I know I do

[Worst]

when are we getting eloped

[PreciousJewel]

Oh darling, you wouldn't be able to handle me.

[Worst]

I look forward to finding out

[PreciousJewel]

Then put a ring on it

[Worst]

how many diamonds?

[PreciousJewel]

I don't want to be able to count them.

[Worst]

lifes good, you know what i mean

[PreciousJewel]

My life is good

[Worst]

Uh, hunnid thousand for the cheapest ring
On a nigga finger, little' bitch, woo

[PreciousJewel]

I'm not black

[Worst]

me neither

[PreciousJewel]

I've figured with that size

[Worst]

you should see my bank account

[PreciousJewel]

Mine has probably more

[Worst]

i got 162$

[PreciousJewel]

I'll bring the money to the table, you'll bring my dinner.

[Worst]

shit lol hope you like ramen noodles straight out the microwave

[PreciousJewel]

I could feel that you were gonna be a great cook

[Worst]

i could say the same about your dick, but i actually felt it lol

[PreciousJewel]

My dick is the best dick you'll ever witness

[Worst]

tru tru

[Anonymous]

Confident? Not at all thats sexy as fuck. Arrogant and condescending... Not going to bother with you.

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆 yeah, that's the reason. They're intimidated.🙄

[RedInnocent68]

Because they don’t have it…

[mandyfire98]

Agreed. Or they don't have enough of it to feel like they can keep a woman who is confident. Those men are deathly afraid of being compared to other men.

[abbyjgriffin98]

Don't mistaken confidence for arrogance.

[slatyb]

Guys? Confident guys are not.

[PreciousJewel]

didn't notice the typo

[Alex8736]

Insecurity and easily Intimidated

[Sunnybeach123]

I honestly think confident girls are sexy.

[Pohjolan]

Boys are, men are not.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

That would be insecure guys only.

[sheikalana]

Are they?

[John_Cobretti]

Which guy?

[Bigjake1995]

Tbh I find it hot

[PreciousJewel]

It is hot

[Bigjake1995]

It really is!