Why why wouldn’t a guy want to date a pretty Eastern European woman?

[Anonymous]

[MrOracle]

I don't know, but whatever the reason is, it likely has nothing to do with you being half Russian. The vast majority of American men couldn't care less what your ethnicity was, and of those who cared, I suspect more of them would see it as a plus than those who would see it as a minus.

Obviously, I know NOTHING about you - not your looks, not your personality, nothing. But something I do know is that - assuming men didn't find you physically unattractive (unlikely, and you'd know why if they did), and assuming they didn't find your personality off-putting, then the MOST LIKELY reason they don't approach you would be that you are shy, and shy people tend to react exactly the same way as people who aren't interested at all in the advances of another person - they don't make eye contact, don't smile, and tend to turn away or look down. This will always be interpreted in the worst possible context, which in this case means that the men will think you aren't interested in them, because you don't give them signs of interest, but instead you turn away, and they assume you aren't interested so they leave you alone.

Again, I don't know you, and this may well not apply to you, but it's still the most common reason that men won't approach a woman they are attracted to.

[Asker]

Haha you’re so right. I’m actually painfully shy and spend time alone a lot and it comes off as stuck up. I’m just stoic which I get from my mother 😂

[MrOracle]

I can't say that I'm surprised, but, yeah, I guarantee you that that's your biggest problem - 10,000 times bigger than your ethnicity. But it's also something you can work on and change. Be aware of how you are being perceived, and if you can't manage to change your behavior (and I get how hard that could be for you), you could at least do something like, say, give the guy you are interested in a note that explains that you are painfully shy until you get to know someone, and that if you seem like you are uninterested, it's just shyness. Encourage him to talk to you. It might not always work, but you might be surprised at how often it DOES work.

[slatyb]

There are many pretty women I wouldn't want to date, regardless of where they are now or where they are from. Reasons:
- Different world views -- she's religious, I'm not, or she holds other magical beliefs
- No common interests -- nothing we both like to do
- No common language -- difficult communication
- She can't live without cats, and I can't live with them
- She smokes or vapes
and others
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[NathanDavis]

I would...

but if you mean one guy in specific... there could be a million reasons

maybe he's just not into her

[BarryLiverstone]

Just because guys don’t approach you doesn’t mean they aren’t attracted to you

[bededazzle]

ha I don't know if there's enough info here!

[Anonymous]

i do. can i get one? nope. lol

[Asker]

I’m half Russian, half American. I have long reddish hair. Guys like never approach me lol. :/

[Opinion Owner]

that happens a lot. Never know the reasons. But there's someone out there for everyone. :D