Are guys who try to make eye contact with you on the street a sign you’re really attractive?

[Anonymous]

[noemiii]

Yes, but from my experience men who walk past really attractive girls tend to be intimidated so they look down, away or anything but at her in general.

[Asker]

I live in a big city - and when I’m walking past a guy I notice they look a lot especially when I’m pulled together and wearing something fancy.

[noemiii]

Yeah me too. I’m from LA. You might be more conveniently attractive or approachable looking. From my experience the really strikingly beautiful ones or intimidatingly beautiful guys are scared to look at lol

[BoopBoopBeep]

Depends on the guy. I'm never going to be too intimidated by a stranger that I can't make eye contact and smile as she walks by. If I'm staring at the ground I'll have no way of seeing how she reciprocates my look, so that would be foolish of me.

[BoobMan]

Could be anything really. I mean, people try to make eye contact with a waiter when they're ready to order or need the check. So it could just mean they need to say something to you like your shoes are untied or your bag is open. Then again, maybe you're hot.

[AviatorTom]

Maybe... but Not necessarily. They could be trying to read the words on your sweatshirt, or trying to figure out what the tattoo on your arm is. Or a whole slew of other reasons to look at you.

[laraWM]

I'm not sure but it's better than a guy who stares at your boobs without even noticing you

Did you talk to him?

[BoobMan]

That's definitely a sign you're attractive!

[laraWM]

@BoobMan If someone stares at you?

[BoobMan]

Presumably the only reason someone would be starring at your boobs is he finds them attractive. That or you spilled something on them or you have something written on your shirt and he's trying to read it. That last one has caught me out before more than once!

[laraWM]

@BoobMan Yes I guess but please don't stare

[BoobMan]

Oh yeah--I don't. The only time it's been an issue is if I'm reading something or just zoning out. Even when that's the reason though it's still super embarrassing! lol!

[laraWM]

@BoobMan Yes but you know even if you feel you don't stare a lot, when you're a girl you are often being stared at

[BoobMan]

Are you saying that even if I feel like I don't stare a lot that I actually DO stare a lot? Or are you saying that even if I don't stare a lot, other guys do?

[laraWM]

@BoobMan I mean guys usually stare more than they think or say. And also if each guy doesn't stare a lot, with all guys outside it makes a lot of looks

[BoobMan]

So I take it you feel like you get a lot of stares?

[laraWM]

@BoobMan Yes

[molonski2]

For the ones trying to do that , you most certainly are exceedingly attractive. Well done.

[EmmaMary]

I've never paid any attention or thought about it.

[Anonymous]

Could be. Could be you're just dressed like a skeezer though. So I wouldn't just assume it's the former.😆

[Anonymous]

That makes sense to me?