I've been working out with a guy lately and he invited me to touch his back to feel the proper form for an exercise. Is he attracted to me?

[Myusername1235]

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo that's weird. Why's this guy asking you to touch him so much? If it was just showing you form once, ok whatever. But he keeps doing it? Definitely sounds like he's trying to feel you up under the guise of "instruction."

I'd be careful and set some boundaries if I were you. Make it clear you're only interested in actually working out together, not whatever else he seems to want. Don't be alone with him if you can help it.

At the same time, don't totally write him off just yet. Maybe he's just real friendly and doesn't realize how it comes across. If he pushes it again though, shut that down fast and find a different gym partner.

Either way, don't stress. You're there to get fit, not deal with some horny dude's creep factor. Soon as you stop vibing with someone, no problem switching things up. Your health and comfort should be the priority here.

Just watch out for signs he doesn't respect your space. There's healthier ways to hit on a girl than pretending it's about gains, ya know? Trust your gut and do what feels right for you.

[Myusername1235]

Definitely not in a creep way at least as far as I’ve seen. He only went as far as telling me to feel his back once, other than that he’s been so kind showing me how to do things without touching

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh nice, good to hear he's not going full creeper about it at least. Seems like he was just using that one back touch as an excuse to get a little closer then, you know?

If he's keeping the physical hands-on help to a minimum otherwise, that shows he's probably not trying to come on too strong. Just testing the waters, see how you vibe with a little contact. Keep an eye on the other signs though, like how much he smiles at you n shit.

Either way, keep letting him school you and getting those reps in together. It's always good networking at the gym ya feel me? Never know where it could lead, whether you start kickin it outside the weight room or not.

But sounds like he's being respectable for now, so just keep feeling out the vibes and enjoying lifting together. Good work is how a lot of relationships start anyway, so keep me posted if you start peeping any other signals he's throwing yo way!

[ThrillSeeker01]

Yes, that's pretty intimate.