At what point does a man feel that the girl he met is perfect to be his wife?

[Isabellaioss]

[ColHathi]

I think when I know that our goals are aligned, that we love each other, that I feel comfortable with her, and that I want to live with her, then I'd probably feel that way.

There are a lot more things that would go into getting to that point of course, but yeah.

[Isabellaioss]

Yes, clearly those things are important to have a healthy, long lasting relationship.

[AmeerX]

I usually know it by 2nd month or 3rd if she is wife material or not.

[Isabellaioss]

Okay, and how to do you come to that conclusion?

[AmeerX]

First, by that time I feel I know my own emotions. Whether it's lust or love.
Second, I take this time because I feel if a girl is superficial she will do things to let it known. It's subtle but it happens.
If she wants a marriage or just time pass is fairly quickly known in this time. And guess what a lot of girls make it out to be that they are serious and looking for marriage but really they are just chicken for commitment and just looking for side fun.
Then, during this time, girl almost always turn out to be either the complaining types or the enduring types.
And there are somethings that you feel

[Isabellaioss]

Yeah, you're right. Thanks

[Saiesh30]

This is gonna get varied answers. Every man has it's own desires and parameters.
For me, when I find her to be understanding and accepting of my flaws along with the fact that she's a family girl, gives me the surety she's the one.

[Isabellaioss]

Yes, absolutely, those things you mentioned are very essential if they are to live together for a lifetime.

[Saiesh30]

Yeah! For me at least that's important