Do most men truly love once and marry who's ready/wife material (convenient) ?

[Reem12345reem]

I hate first loves , I wanna be the one for him

[Anonymous]

Just like women. If he had a good upbringing, was raised with solid values has had healthy role models in his life, then the odds are very good at this yes. But like anything in life, a plan can can start of good and end up all wrong.

I'm one of these guys but I was far too trusting in my younger years and I met some pretty horrible women. I'm not blaming these women. I was raised to believe all women are ladies and quality people. Unfortunately this is not true. It took me a long time to realize a good woman from a bad woman. And at this age most GOOD women are married.

At your age I'd say focus is the problem of most males. Their understanding of love, real love is pretty shallow.

[Anonymous]

No, men can love many times and even much more intense then the first time since they get more aquintance with their soul and who they are as they grow older. I can guarantee it, actually for me it felt that I always loved more the woman from present then from the woman before her, maybe was just lucky to find the right women.

[WhitneySnow]

Girl you’re two years younger than I am. Odds are you’ll be your bf’s first love.

[sheikalana]

Men can fall in love with different partners throughout their lives.

[Losalt]

Most people don't end up with their first love for various reasons.
Guys also need more time to mature then girls.
As a result they might not necessarily make the greatest partners yet when you first catch feelings for them.
Some never do...

Personally I think that getting some experiences in life is a good thing.

[kakaling]

I hate it when I was young, that I don't know love, I thought I could forget about her, but once I fall deeply with her, that is forever. I thought I could find another that I love but it was so hard. I was afraid, now I am ready, searching hard for another love. I wish the person that I find is ready to fall deeply in love again too.

[JonesT10Apr]

when going to marry a man choose a best woman to be a better mom for his children babies... so he should be wise and smart in choosing his babies mom...

secondly who like to be bridge between family or between husband and parents or in-laws parents...
(simply can say a woman who unite family and bond)

so I hope you get the answer...

[genericname85]

i don't think anyone in the history of ever "just loved once". commitment is a decision one may or may not make. i would say most people do want to make that decision at some point in their life. some earlier, some later and some may never want to do that.

[slatyb]

Plenty of men and settle for someone available that they can tolerate. Too often they settle for someone who is intolerable. They do this because they are afraid to be alone.

[LazerBean]

It's possible. But most men lack enough self control and insight to do so.

[RoosterBreast]

Some shit popped into my mind as you said "most men lack self control." Sounds misandristic and sexist. You're canceled. Why say something about one gender and not the other? That's incredibly sexist and you're probably transphobic too. But, in case if gender is not a social construct, then you might be saying something precise - but in the opposite direction. Let's quote PsychologyToday (I'm sure @anon1903 and feminist @wilmareportu will love another PsychologyToday article after Orgasmospheric enlightenment):

"It turns out that male brains may contain more serotonin than female brains. In a study done about 25 years ago, researchers temporarily decreased the ability of the brains of women and men to make serotonin. They restricted the brain’s access to tryptophan, the amino acid from which serotonin is made. When they made tryptophan available again, they found that the rate of serotonin synthesis was 52% faster in men’s brains.

In a more recent study using PET scans to detect differences in brain markers of serotonin activity between men and women, women’s brains showed lower serotonin activity."

As you probably know, having enough serotonin and sensitivity to serotonin is tied to willpower and discipline.

Low serotonin and low sensitivity to serotonin is tied to depression.

That PsychologyToday article even mentioned that women are more depressed likely for having less serotonin.

And, that they're usually overeating impulsively. Go look it up for yourself,
www.psychologytoday.com/.../gender-differences-in-brain-serotonin-activity

@CassandraSpender and @Subarugirl this is a chance for you to repent. Notice, that PsychologyToday article says GENDER DIFFERENCE. Not SEX but GENDER.

[RoosterBreast]

The reason women act out less big boy desires is not self control. It's FEAR. Women have far more active amygdala and think about danger and seeking safety all the time.

It's not that they get a chance to think deeply about their actions. They act out of intuition. There's no way to stop a mother whose child is in danger, even authorities can't. SHE can't stop herself. Women have no self control.

In general this is true, most women and most men are clearly separated by biology and biochemistry.

Women have lower sex drives because of biology, but have sex just as much, which means the total sum of sexual suppression and restraint is less than in men.

Women care more about ethics to avoid causing harm that scares them, that's why they don't go around shooting as much, in addition to them knowing consciously that they're physically weaker, which acts as a placebo effect to turn them more complacent, and this complacency is not a choice, it's automatic and out of their control.

But speaking of utilizing the placebo effect to enhance your eligibility to fall into a gender stereotype, have you ever tried enlarging your scrotum using hypnotic affirmations?

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=dG5cZzbKvW0

[LazerBean]

Geez I'm not going to read ALL that.

*Most people lack enough self control and insight to do so.

Better?

[CassandraSpender]

@RoosterBreast wtf do I have to repent for? Yes, there is a difference in the brains by way of gender... that's pretty much the basis of the whole concept of transgender people

[Anonymous]

Yes my hubby is my first love and I'm his!

Took us to long to find each other but we did and it was magic!

[Kinkyhubby]

I tried and believed that too. But when I left for the military she cheated and I ended it. And then moved on to the next love

[CreedOfIron]

I loved once... maybe twice and at most three times, however it really does a man no favours to humanise and put that much emotional investment in one woman...

[Awantika03]

Possible

[Anonymous]

Yeah