If a guy is really nice to you does that usually mean he likes you?

[KezHarris]

Yes

No

Depends

Other

[RandomUser1000]

If someone is nice to you, then they probably don't hate you...

It's possible to like people in different ways.

You can like someone as a friend without wanting a sexual and/or romantic relationship with them.

But it can also be that they want sex and/or romance with you.

If you want something other then just friendship to happen you probably have a good chance with whoever this really nice to you guy is.

I don't know how you know each other.
But maybe you can ask if he wants to grab a coffee together or something else where you meet without it explicitly have to be a date date.

Or if you have more courage you can just ask if he wants to go on a date with you.
If that is what you want.

Otherwise if you don't want such things to happen you can just be like friends as long as he doesn't ask you out on a date or does something else to clearly cross friendship borders. If he does, then just tell him you only want him as a friend.
Then he can either accept that or maybe stop hanging out with you.

If he gets mean toward you for not wanting more then friendship.
Then you know he wasn't worth your time to begin with.
(It's a different thing to be disappointed, but still be civil about it)

Yeah also if you don't know him well.
Meet in public places.
Don't go home to him or invite him home if you barely know him.

Stay safe and good luck!

[MrOracle]

It usually means he's ATTRACTED to you (we're assuming his level of "nice" is noticeably higher than his level of "nice" for other people). "Attracted" often only means "sexually attracted", but it does sometimes mean "romantically/relationship attracted." You'd need to have some conversations with him and spend time with him for some amount of time to know which it was.

[wolfcat87]

How nice? Is he letting you steal food off his plate, paying for everything, walk around his place like you own it, get into his closet and try on his clothes, sit on his lap, borrow his jacket if you're cold, letting you drive his car, taking you places all the time, etc. Those are indicators that a guy really likes you. When you're able to cross normal friendship boundaries into something else entirely.

Or, is he just being friendly, respectful, polite, and treating you like someone would treat a friend or relative? That wild make it very unclear.

[linka_pat307]

That is what leads to self heartbreaks because we usually think when someone is nice to us they are interested in us

[RebelinSteel]

I would say it depends, I try to be nice to the majority of people, yes I will flirt with a girl and that will come over a ‘oh he likes me’ but it does not mean I want anything else, just being nice but with some flirting. If he goes out of his way to see you more than once, then yeah he probably likes you or you have your own stalker.

[NathanDavis]

I'm usually a decent person... no need to know them or "like them"

[Billlewis]

Yes, it's usually an indication of either his determination to have sex with you, or his capitulation to the irrefutable fact that you're just simply much too good for him;)

[Ms_Facesitter]

No, some people are just really nice in general. I wouldn't think much of it, unless he's actually flirting.

[Dr_CEI]

Some of us guys were brought up to be gentlemen and talk and compliment women

[OlderAndWiser]

It usually means either

1. he is just a good person who tries to be nice to everyone, or

2. he likes you in a romantic way, or

3. he likes you in a platonic way.

[IslaTheWitch]

Most men are very nice... I really doubt all of them like me :D

[stratford]

Sorry, this question is too basic. It needs more context about the guy, the girl and their relationship.

[TheGuyWhoKnowsStuff]

A guy can be nice to you because he doesn't want to trigger you on the off chance you're a Karen.

[Nikki1989]

They are rare, but true gentlemen still exist.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, that is a possibility

[LiamJHayden]

It depends. I'm generally nice to anyone who has not given me a specific reason to withdraw that courtesy.

[Hawaiikai]

Words are words. Action is action. I’d choose action

[bolverk]

Not necessarily – It could be that how he is, “really nice” to all those he interacts with.

[KrakenAttackin]

Simply being polite does not indicate attraction.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Nope, he’s just friendly.

[serious]

No. Not necessarily

[Jerre]

I voted Yes, but stressed the “Usually “.

[Jerre]

@kezharris Thank you for the Like

[DancingQueen16]

It can mean that sometimes

[Jamie05rhs]

Possibly.

[Guido]

It usually does.

[InspireGlow678]

Yeah