Would you drop out of a group of friends and stop hanging out also with the guys if one of the girls is after you and you don’t reciprocate?

[Anonymous]

Yes in any case, it only creates unhealthy dynamics

Only if she’s very insistent

Only in extreme cases, such as if she’s doing stalking

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend had a girl in his group that was after him. He said she started to get pushy and telling everyone that they were getting together (they did hook up twice). Eventually he walked away from the friend group and ghosted the girl. But years after he started hanging out with that group of friends again but only the boys.

[Asker]

Interesting. It happened 3 times in our friends group, always the same girl pursuing boys aggressively, but all three of them cut all ties also with other people of the group, which I found sad/a bit extreme

[Opinion Owner]

I mean it definitely sounds very uncomfortable to have someone aggressively pursuing you so I can understand why they would prefer to just contact with everyone. They could’ve thought that the whole group was supporting her so to prevent drama they decide to just completely walk away

[Ironic_Method]

I like how there's not a "no" option.

No.

[Wise4myage]

Yeah, who needs the stress?

[Paul09]

My friends are my family. No for me.