This dude who is the owner of the gym I go to is constantly kissing me on the forehead and saying you’re muscles look really good” is he hitting on?

[Anonymous]

He literally did it today with my boyfriend there with me

[Anonymous]

So you let a random dude who is supposedly the owner of the gym, touch you and kiss your forehead?
And again at your boyfriend presence?
A simple kiss from someone who has STD’s can transmit it by a simple skin to skin contact.
I dont know about other people, but that’s a no for me.



(Acceptable touch, are maybe hugs-depends on circumstances, pat on the shoulder, handshakes) depends on culture too, and closeness to someone holds hands. If I’m falling someone catch me by the waisted that’s acceptable, again circumstance.

[Opinion Owner]

By the waist*

[PonyCar]

Is it flirting? Yes.

Does he have boundary issues? Hell yes.

Do you need better boundaries? Also yes. Why you letting randos kiss you?

[mooky06]

What the shit? yeah sounds like it

[Asker]

It’s like some late 30 year old and I’m only 20

[mooky06]

the gym owner dude did that to you in front of your boyfriend that’s fucked up

[tzdc21]

Uh yeah that's flirting

[Asker]

He said he’s proud of me too.. literally everyday I’m there he has to tell me that my muscles look really good or looking good. At first I thought he was being friendly but now it’s creepy

[tzdc21]

I would never consider a forehead kiss "friendly." If I were you, I'd look for a new gym.

[Alex-Snow]

Yes he is... I'd be careful.

[Asker]

Even if he says he’s proud of me? Is he being friendly?

[Alex-Snow]

What does his body language tell u? Does he know u have a boyfriend? Is he near ur age?

[Anonymous]

Yes, he most definitely is hitting on you.

[slatyb]

Yes. Ewwww.