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This guy said he talks to me because he feels sorry for me.
he thinks I’m lonely angry and insecure
(true but damn)
I said something rude first but I still didn’t think men talk to women out of pity
Why would a man talk to you out of pity?
Anonymous
(25-29) 
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some do but doesn't last long
Hurt my soul bc I thought he had feelings… he said he didn’t want a relationship bc of work
Married the next year.
Some guys do
Because they think u need someone to talk to
What’s the point if he leaves … I thought he had feelings.. said he wasn’t ready for a relationship bc of work.
He entered into a relationship right after we stopped talking and now he married her
Blocked my number and everything… still hurts
Because its not based on him having feelings or liking you it's based on him feeling bad for you because he knows he is going through a hard time and or have issues
So sympathy or … ? I also don’t understand why I was blocked when we ended things on good terms
Because he believed u would be bothered or try to contact him when he no longer wished yo speak to you
I think that’s hurtful… it’s like I really was nothing to him
U was a person he spoke to out of pity ge didn't have feelings for you the way u had for him
He was wrong
I agree it's not a nice thing to do
Why do men do this to me… why am I just not good enough.
Has nothing to do with being good enough he was never a option because he was never intrested in u like that a bad choice of trying to make u feel better
He wanted friends with benefits so he did want sex
Then that complety changes things lol as he didn't speak to you because he felt sorry he did because he thought he could fuck u
Him wanting to be a friends with benefits shows he never had good intentions from the start just said nice things to fuck u at the time
Not true bc he said he didn’t want to sleep with me bc he didn’t want to be all hurt and in my feelings if a relationship didn’t come from it.
Yet he wanted to be friends with benefits?
We both agreed to it…. But we never had the chance bc of our schedules and bc I think he did end up caring slightly
Bc I kept trying to and he didn’t want to
Mostly bc I know he didn’t want me to get attached
U think he end3d up caring meh if that's what u think fair enough
Oh no he didn’t…?
I dont believe he did
I believe so too but I’m saying he cared enough not to sleep with me
I dont think that takes much level of care but sure
All it seems is he was aware u might start digging out after sex and didn't want to put up with that drama
Why do all guys do that to me? They want sex but then they don’t want to have sex with me… I don’t understand
Because they realise that u might be clingy after sex because they learn more about u
What’s wrong with that?
They want to have sex no strings attached otherwise they would be looking for a relationship which they are not they are looking for sex
But he entered a relationship the same month we stopped talking and got married 6 months later
OK what's your point he wasn't ever going to do that with u he just wanted a friends with benefits from u now a relationship lol are u under the belief u get a relationship from sex
No not at all
He just didn’t want one with me.
No he didn't so why bring up why guys pull out of sex when they find out u will get attached if u know the guys that just want sex wouldn't want u getting feelings
I don’t have much dating experience… never had a bf….
Which I get but u seem to confuse hmwhats a potential partner to what justvsex is if u can't have sex without getting attached u shouldn't be looking for hookups
I wasn’t going to sleep with him I just wanted attention
But if its attention attached to a expectation of sex that u then get hurt by when he moves on all your doing is hurting yourself
True that’s why I tell men I don’t mind being their placeholder until they become exclusive with someone else. I tell them no sex etc
The last guy just couldn’t wrap his head around me being a placeholder holder and said he’ll end up liking me for nothing. But that’s what I wanted
In the end he wanted sex eventually after a date he ghosted but he was puzzled in the beginning
But u clearly mind what your doing because u are asking me why men do this to you but your choosing to do this to yourself
That’s true bc I was under the impression that they might change their mind
Getting with someone hopping they change their mind is a terrible idea
True
If a man follows a trans woman’s sex page is he gay? Like if the trans has boobs etc and a butt but it doesn’t really show the 🍆
….
By actual definitions no it dont make him gay
….. then what?
What do u mean then what do u know what the definition of being gay is?
No….
So he’s bi?
Bi is a attraction to males and females is he attracted to guys?
How can u not know the definition of someone gay but be throwing the word out
Shit that’s why I’m asking… I don't know what someone is if they’re attracted to trans…
They are simply attracted to trans women aswell as who ever they find attractive if you consider trans women men then yes it would be gay but he may not see it the same way u do