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Why do you ask this and spend so much time on him if you are not interest in him for a relationship?
I just asked a question because he followed me and I'm curious as to what to do. I know it's just social media but I don't want to follow him back and regret it
You have to provide more details here. What happened?
Long story short me and this had a falling out and he accused me of playing games and stringing him along. It was a heated text exchange. I knew he liked me because he directly told me.
We met at work but we talked more when we both left that job.
where you playing games and did you like him really or not? I can understand the other part if it actually went as described above.
I liked him but only as a friend. What would you consider playing games? I only texted him with the intention of being friends. He didn't like that every time he suggested we meet up I wouldn't commit.
When you said i understand the other part, what are you referring to?
Why should he stay your friend and why you want him as a friend if you don't want a relationship or like him? Just find other friends no? I mean that's how people normally see it
Did you flirt or were too friendly? maybe you have feeling for him and you haven't realised it. I don't know I think you should isolate yourself and think inside you what you want from him and if you can see your life "without him" as friend or whatever.
The crazy thing about this situation is these things happened years back. He recently just followed me on social media which is why I asked this question. Since time has passed I'm wondering what message would follow him back send. He followed me for a reason and i genuinely don't know what to do
Don't follow back he's your ex so why should you?
He's not really an ex. We never dated. When I said relationship it wasn't a romantic one
Yes ok but if you are not interested in him just don't follow him. Instead if you want a relationship and start trying with him follow back
If he followed me first last week, wouldn't I just be reciprocating what he did if I followed him back?
Depends if u want to be friends
Social media friends or real life friends?
Either
Would you do it?
If I wanted to remain friends yeah
Got it. Thanks for your input
Were you following him before?
Nope
So then don't follow him.
What if he followed me first?
Is this a hypothetical question? Or did he actually follow you?
He actually followed me
So do you forgive him?
(What did he do?)
I forgive him but I'm unsure if I want to rekindle a relationship or friendship because so much time has passed. We didn't date or were in a relationship by the way.
Long story short we had a falling out and he accused me of playing games and stringing him along. It was a heated text exchange.
WERE you playing games? Be honest.
I wouldn't say I was playing games. I just wasn't interested in him romantically. Although we were texting each other he took it as if I liked him. I knew he liked me
Who texted who first?
We both texted each other first at times
No. I mean who was the first person to text, period? At the very beginning.
We first met each other years back but if I remember it was him
How did you meet?
We used to work together
Okay. How did he get your number?
He asked and I gave it to him
Interesting.
Did I do anything wrong?
I'm not sure. You probably did. Lol. But I don't have the evidence.
I probably unintentionally gave him the wrong idea. Once I discovered he liked me I should've just left him alone
Yeah. You should have clarified the situation.
Absolutely. Do you think it would be a bad idea to apologize to him?
No; I think that would be a very good idea. It would be the right thing to do.