Should I be offended that my man very obviously look at other women while walking with me and holding my hand?

[Anonymous]

So he has been single for 8 years before me and I understand some things stick with him. I do not mind the fact that he sees women on the street but I, personally, turn my head on the other side when I see a man approaching due to respect I have for my man. Him on the other hand crosses the look with every single girl that passes next to him, even double check some of them.

The other day he was holding my hand and telling me a story when a girl crossed us. He paused speaking looking her way. I didn't say anything I just let go of his hand.

None of my bfs did that before. So I am not used to that. Is that offensive or I am the problem?

[Fanfare690]

It's a little bit of both. But honestly if he's lingering with his eye contact or entertaining eye contact or entertaining the other woman by constantly looking her way LEAVE!

[Billlewis]

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[Asker]

I am so on alert when it comes to that because for this year and a half I got to feel bad many times over it. He looks away only when I look at him.

[Fanfare690]

Girl honestly... I am or was the SAME way as you. I feel... felt how you do. I think it's disrespectful but honestly if he's just looking around it's not that big of a deal.. but again if he's entertaining these hoes LEAVE HIM. It's okay to appreciate some beauty. Start doing it yourself. Look at other men appreciate beauty but don't entertain it I feel once you do your insecurities for when your man does this will go away

[Fanfare690]

My man stopped looking at women around me cause I started looking back at men

[boggboss]

Why are u asking if u should be offended u should be able to put up boundaries for yourself does it bother u