If you as a guy were really good friends with a girl and you started spending more and more time together - to the point where the lines of it becoming more than friends start to get blurred: would you consider how she might feel about this? Would that change how you act if you weren’t interested in the girl romantically, i. e. would you continue down this road if you had no desire for it to become more than a friendship? I think about this all the time. I would be happy for this friendship to turn into a relationship so I don’t mind - but if I wasn’t interested in a relationship with this guy I would be worried sick by now that I’d be leading him on - and I would have had to change how we interact or how often and long we spend time together. Hope this makes sense. Yes I am second guessing how he feels about us.
I am always concerned now and have been very bad for it in the past... So i've learnt
would you consider how she might feel about this? - Absolutely
Would you continue down this road if you had no desire for it to become more than a friendship? - I would come clean and transparent to her and fully express my intentions
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No. Though I do realize that I may have unintentionally done so because I can't recognize flirting and when a woman has flirted with me I likely seemed receptive so she may have thought there was something.
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No I make it real clear from day one. I'm not dating right now. We can be friends, we can hang out, stuff happens, it happens, but I'm not focusing on dating right now while some other stuff in my life is in flux.
Sometimes. I would never do so intentionally, but I miss the signs that she see/wants more.
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No as in a situation like that I would have already made it clear what I wanted
Not anymore. I would never.
No I never lead a woman on its wrong
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