Why did he ask who was I talking about?

[WinCx3d]

Told the guy I’m seeing that” i wanted to get off work and go home to cuddle with my baby”

And he said “are you talking about your baby girl or are you talking about me as far as baby”?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that's kinda weird that he asked that. A couple thoughts on what it could mean:

- He may have been trying to playfully flirt and insinuate that you see him as your "baby" too in a cute, affectionate way. But it came off kinda strange.

- It could be that he's a little insecure or jealous and wanted to make sure you weren't referring to another guy as your "baby". Which would be a red flag.

- Or he may have just genuinely been confused by the context of your message and wasn't sure if you had an actual baby or were using "baby" as a nickname for someone.

I'd just keep an eye on any other signs he could be acting possessive or controlling. The question on its own isn't that bad, but combined with other behaviors it could hint at deeper issues.

If things seem good otherwise, maybe just point out you meant your daughter to clear it up. But trust your gut - if you start to feel like he's too anxiously attached or doesn't respect boundaries, that's not a healthy sign long term.

[WinCx3d]

He know i have a 9 month old

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah I see, so since he knows you have a 9 month old baby, then asking if you meant him definitely seems like he was just joking around then!

If he's aware you've got a little one at home, then there's no way he could think you were talking about anything but your actual baby. Dude was just trying to be funny by putting himself in the "baby" role too for some playful flirting.

Since he knows the context, I wouldn't take it as him being insecure or needing reassurance. Seems like typical silly banter between two people dating. As long as your conversations are usually light and you both have a good sense of humor, I wouldn't read too much into his comment. He was likely just teasing and trying to make you chuckle! No biggie at all then.

[OlderAndWiser]

If you are talking to your man and you refer to cuddling with someone else, you are deliberately playing a game with him.

[Billlewis]

I take it that he doesn't know you very well yet;)

[TommyMountainFigure]

That''s simple. He can try and deny it, but that is a classic case of insecurity!

[TommyMountainFigure]

Update:-
As I read you have a baby daughter, I wish to change my answer from insecurity to flirting!

[laly520]

u asked that before n some told u he wants to cuddle with u while others said its weird

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

He was hoping you meant to cuddle with him

[KrakenAttackin]

You have a nine month old and are dating someone other than the baby -daddy?

[laly520]

thats pretty weird