My bisexual ex boyfriend was emotionally unavailable, had Little emotional intelligence and when we became serious he was afraid so he kept distance. But in most cases I felt happy with him. I believed that he is not bad person but only struggling. But when awful people told him lies about me but with a little truth (he knew that it was truth) he believed them. We talked on Snapchat but we never talked about it face to face. He recently after getting drunk send me "hi" on messenger but then delete it. He couldn't do it accidentally because we didn't use chat for years so I was very much below on list and we don't have each other in friends so I didn't show up on top in online friends. I didn't know what to do so I send him "ok..." I thought that it wasn't good respond because he could misinterpreted so I send him follow request on Instagram (to show that I would also agree to reconcile) and he blocked me. Why person who told me he cares now doesn't want to reconcile? I wonder because this awful people also showed to him that they are liars and despicable and I also showed that I help and care even when he left me. I would wants to know what to do? Give him another chance or accept that he is narccist?
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Why my ex bi boyfriend, who told me he loves me and that I'm 1 of 3 most important people in his life, still believe in lies that he heard?
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Well... you didn't come off as welcoming. If it happened to me I'd think you're just being nosey on why he blocked you but forget other people come at this person correct or not at all
So he really could have thought I had bad intentions and, out of fear, decided it would be easier to block me to protect himself? Generally, he has a private account on Instagram, so for me to see his profile, he would have to accept me, so he could simply not accept me and not block me right away. I don't know if his bad behavior was the result of years of trauma and teasing, but I guess it's possible. Especially since he pretended to be a manly, non-emotional dick in front of others, but in front of me he was nice, sweet and polite.
I don't know what to do fight for him to be his friend (because we were best friend before relationship) or just accept that he doesn't try and move on? Because I treats all my best friends as family and I fight for family
Move on. Of he comes back be open bit don't wait up for him