Do men hate or love difficult women?

[Chelsdope0]

I’m difficult to deal with.. I’m a total bitch to men lol… I love it. It’s fun

[Nice222]

Depends. When I first met my wife she was going through many Family and Financial problems. Her Father had just died and her mother was in stage four cancer and passed away. She had to deal with selling the family house and settling the estate all while building our relationship. So yeah she was plenty difficult to deal with. But I also saw her compassionate and caring side and her ability to deal with rough situations. It was her ability to do all of this that caused me to fall in love with her. To be honest it wasn’t all fun and easy but we kinda built our relationship through the fires. But we are now hardened and strong.

[Chelsdope0]

That’s so nice

[Nice222]

❤️❤️❤️

[LockedinChastity801]

I like typical women in certain aspects. Like she can be difficult with denying me her body, teasing me about and humiliating me in a accurate manner or giving me directions to do in a demanding way; but on the other hand I want to be able to see the sides of me, you do appreciate. Vibe with me on the things you do love me and let me hear I’m doing good job. I’m submissive and desire a cuckolding relationship; and get turned on by the thought of getting cheated on; best boyfriend you can find. Extremely loyal, forgiving, service oriented, considerate, and caring. I think there’s a difference between love and lust, I can have a loving relationship and with a girl that’s a bitch to me in the bedroom!

[Zoeysiren]

Men, like anyone, are all different! Some might be intimidated by a strong personality, while others find it attractive. Confidence is sexy, but there's a difference between being difficult and having healthy boundaries. The best relationships are with people who respect you and your voice, no matter how you express it. Focus on being you, and the right person will appreciate it.

[laly520]

depends but generally I doubt they would like it on long term or if its a serious relationship

[lightbulb27]

avoid the pain, but some love the challenge.

[lightbulb27]

and the $20,000 question... why are you like that. feels good to torture men, so that means you've been hurt by them earlyr in life, are avoiding vulnerability, enjoy torture?

[lightbulb27]

a lot of pain related unless you change course...

[Chelsdope0]

Never thought of that. Ig so but I’m not going to stop lol

[lightbulb27]

no, not until the trauma is resolved. the path to progress is suffering... but in the meantime, it does a lot of damage.

[Chelsdope0]

I don’t give af about none of that. Lol

I’m not suffering they are. All I need is their validation

I’m not called a “bitch “ “man eater “ or “black widow “ for no reason.

[lightbulb27]

No surprise, ya think I'm dumb? I expect to make you aware of yourself and the consequences to yourself. In essence, you are living a life out of programmed spite and rage... and I'm sure you have good reason... you give what you got. Just like all other humans with our individual issues I say... turn around, and go the other direction! Will be the hardest step you ever took, but is the right direction. Such is life in this world.

[Chelsdope0]

I’m a sex symbol lol I don’t need you to preach to me

[lightbulb27]

So was Marilyn Monroe, she was amazing.
no problem for me... enjoy your days in the sun. you'll probably never need Jesus, but if get to that place, is there for you.

I pitty the men that get drawn to your web that don't have the awareness. It's not like what you are doing is a novel invention.

[Chelsdope0]

Marilyn is my mother. Lol I feel bad for men who get caught in my web too.

A delicious snack to spit out.

[sawno]

I seek an equal, not an enemy. So if you're gonna try to dominate me for the sake of dominating me that's fun in the bedroom but outside of it I have little patience for someone controlling. If you just want us to meet half way and your ensuring your needs are met thats the right girl for me, since ill also do the same thing and if she doesn't speak up ill walk over her.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Most of my girlfriends have been high maintenance, VERY high maintenance in fact. I tended to be a bit of a bad boy though, and although I am never bad to women, I found that women loved me being bad to others. It seems like that dynamic works well

[ProbablyClueless]

I hate difficult women, honestly. I avoid them like the plague, and my life is better for it. Why would anyone want someone around who actively makes life worse?

I don't find it cute. I don't find it fun. It's not exhilarating for me.

Difficult women are people I stay away from.

[normalice]

Depends on what the difficulty is. Usually, women tend to have a different idea of what is fun in that regard, though. They find it fun but I find it to be just work.

[slatyb]

Hate it. You are behaving unethically, using others for your amusement. Keep it up and you will find yourself alone.

[Chelsdope0]

I love being alone

[Lionman95]

Men like difficult women when they are looking for adventures or they have personal issues themselves. Most guys I would say don't want a long term relationship with a difficult woman.

[Drew-1990]

I don't hate women I love women as much as they confuse me but I would hate you being like that with me. I wouldn't hate you just treating me that way.

[Billlewis]

If you're a total bitch, that makes you a dream come true for me ❤️

[Chelsdope0]

Well I am 🤭

[DryGermanGuy]

Nothing against a deep and complex personality, but certainly not to the point of being difficult.

[James899]

Everyone is difficult and in the same way everyone is simple too.
Feelings of the persons matters. If we love each other, we have same feelings and thoughts. Definitely it’s not a big deal to love anyone.

[Nikki1989]

Some men like a challenge. The weak ones run and hide.

[ProbablyClueless]

Emotionally healthy men get away from women like that too.

[Chelsdope0]

Not sure… some men really know how to deal with a difficult woman.. difficult isn’t equivalent to abusive

I’m known for cursing men out and being disrespectful … but one guy I just couldn’t… I couldn’t bring myself to do it … not saying I wasn’t difficult but I felt submissive with him naturally.. it’s like a part of me just respected him. And he never even fucked me.

He never argued with me.. and in fact he said he wouldn’t and I said “okay “ lmaooo which is weird because I’ll say fuck you in a second.

Only weak men love abusive women..

[ProbablyClueless]

@Chelsdope0 Difficult ALWAYS takes the form of abuse. Even if it's not intentional.

[Chelsdope0]

Not trueee lmao

[ProbablyClueless]

I promise that it is lol At least it has been in my experience

[Chelsdope0]

Probably because you’re a simp lol no offense

[ProbablyClueless]

See? There's the abuse. You're trying to insult me and be dismissive by calling me a Simp and acting like you're joking.

And no, actually. I'm definitely not a simp.

[Chelsdope0]

Aww, I didn’t mean to hurt your feelings. You precious man. 🙄

[ProbablyClueless]

Lmao you didn't hurt my feelings at all. I'm just calling a spade a spade.

[Chelsdope0]

I am too lol

[ProbablyClueless]

We both know that you aren't. Have yourself a fun weekend though.

[Chelsdope0]

I think you are in your feelings because I called you out.. you are a simp. Just accept it….

[Chelsdope0]

But ofc you’re probably Clueless

[ProbablyClueless]

heheh... you types always need to get the last word in, don't you?

[Billlewis]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[Chelsdope0]

@ProbablyClueless yes, ofc. I’m alpha and omega.

[clampfan101]

Apparently some people like the thrill of the chase. I personally do not.

[msc545]

That's great for you. You aren't worth the time and effort for any man to bother with. There is nothing about you that makes it worth it.

[Anonymous]

Only men with very low self esteem like women like that.

[Chelsdope0]

Not true

[Opinion Owner]

Lol, you keep telling yourself that.

[Chelsdope0]

I just don’t think that’s always the case

[Opinion Owner]

There are exceptions to every rule, but the rule still hold true.

[Bobby88t]

I love when a girl is difficult because i have to try and make her accept me more

[spartan55]

Yeah, doesn't everyone hate a pain in the ass?

[HelpfulWoman]

no self respecting man will put up with that.

[Beau2024]

You just need a real man to dick you down!

[Chelsdope0]

Why do you assume I need to be “dicked down”

[Beau2024]

If you’re a total bitch to men then you haven’t found the right man to have some balls and fuck you right and put you in your place. Then you won’t be so angry.

[Beau2024]

I’m not saying I’m that man for you just saying maybe that’s what you need and want

[Chelsdope0]

Mmmm… no.

Dick can’t change this. I’m not angry

[Beau2024]

@Chelsdope0 then what’s your purpose and pleasure in treating me like shit? Is it a fetish?

[Chelsdope0]

Mmm I don't know. I just like it

[Beau2024]

@Chelsdope0 ok I’ll bite! how and what is your style of being a bitch how so what actions do you do?

[Chelsdope0]

Alright you got me

I do need dick but that’s not the ultimate reason

[Beau2024]

Yeah I figured as much all ya’ll girls just need a good ole fashioned pussy pounding. That’s how I get my girl to settle her ass down!

[Chelsdope0]

Mmm. Ok lol

[Beau2024]

@Chelsdope0 🤌🏽🫶🏽🫠😉

[Chelsdope0]

You think some dck will really get me right?

[Beau2024]

@Chelsdope0 is not just a penis that’s going to make it right, it’s the right cock attached to the right man.

[Chelsdope0]

I don’t get the man part “right man”…?

[Juxtapose]

Hard to get is hard to want.

[Chelsdope0]

Good. Stay over there.

[Juxtapose]

I'm autistic, you wouldn't have given me a chance regardless. I don't play mind games or indulge shit tests. I am straight up and drama-free.