Lately these videos show up in my feed from this guy Casey Zander. By his thumbnails he gives the impression that he's just another RedPill talking head, but I've watched some of his stuff and he isn't quite like that.
He says women despise men who love them, because it shows male weakness, and women don't want men who are outwardly caring about her and being affectionate. What do you guys think? True or not.
This is an oversimplification. But here are a few points:
Anyway the strongest negotiating position at the table is to be able to walk away and mean it with women. Whether you are in love or not that’s position men have to take when they are being respected. And that is BY FAR the hardest shit test men have to deal with. By far. The vast majority of us weren’t born with to “get it” when it comes to women.
He contradicts himself a lot. Or maybe he’s just not clear enough with his language…but I’ve taken this guy’s advice before and it’s had a really negative impact on my relationship. Gotta remember that every woman is an individual
I wish losers on social media would stop getting involved with low class poorly raised 🗑 and pretending that this is normal simply because of the fact that they offer nothing that would attract a decent respectful individual themselves.
I'm being extremely blunt because I am tired of these deadbeats. When you were raised properly, I know that is as rare as shitting gold in the Americas, you don't behave like these idiots on social media pretend.
And I say idiot because the usual follower of a social media influencer or celebrity or athlete is a low intelligence moron themselves. This is best exemplified recently was all these stupid s*** for brains followers of Beyoncé frantically looking for Chrome for her concert
There was a social media influencer a few months ago who was saying they were being stalked as example and all their fans were being yes you're being stalked. No they weren't being stalked as a f****** retards were taking up the entire sidewalk and the person behind them couldn't get past without shoving the idiot social media influencers onto the ground and stepping on them.
No,
I hate playing games, I've never been the type to go after someone because they 'hate' me, in-fact why would I hurt myself by wanting someone like that, as soon as I know someone hates me I distance myself from them.
Opposite for people who love me, my boyfriend shows me a lot of love, and I don't associate a normal emotion with 'weakness', it makes me feel safe and secure around him and appreciated. I could never hate him, in fact I'm so glad I have someone who can process their emotions, instead of a fully grown 'man' who is emotionally immature and cannot show love.
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Women play this " push and pull ", game, if you push she pulls and if you pull she pushes. It's fucking ridiculous, girls just love attention. Also to girls, guys are also their entertainment, I mean besides the sex. They like to talk to you boring shit. We guys apart from pussy, we never miss a girl when we are with our guy friends. Guys can just freak on their own. It's only in the pussy time, when it becomes a problem when they are not around. But with girls it's not like that. They can't enjoy on their own, therefore they fuck our brains. Once you sleep with a girl , I don't care how submissive she is or if it's just a hookup or whatever, she will begin to control your ass, it's just how it goes. Also they do it so slyly we are just powerless.
No, first of all, women aren't all the same.
I personally think that being with someone who doesn't love me or show me love is dumb as fuck. Why would I want to be with someone who doesn't show me love?
Do I also enjoy going to restaurants where the food tastes awful? It makes no sense.
Now the real question should be asked, what is this guy's version of love that women don't want? Maybe his view is different from some women's views of love.
The question itself is just wrong. The simple FACT of the matter is there are just some really toxic women in this world. Video's like this try to rationalize irrational people. No, women don't hate guys that love them. But there are some women in this incapable of healthy love. They simply are incapable of being loved because they simply do not know how to relieve it in a healthy way. The best thing a guy can do with a woman like this is just pull up stakes and MOVE ON. You can't fix everyone nor should you try.
No, but I do believe women who were fed with toxic narratives about love or grew up with abandonment issues stay with men they wouldn't even want as friends because they hope that he will change.
True. It takes a lot of healing to unlearn this, I also grew up hearing stuff like that, and society praising women completely "fixing" their husbands with the power of their love. Parents looking to get their sons married to women who are more religious and all hoping this will change their spoiled son. Not that it never happens but it's ridiculous that girlfriends and wives are supposed to do the parenting that actual parents fail to do.
I think @ManOnFire has covered this as an ego-driven thing. The supposed superpower of "fixing" a broken man.
@ericclayton Correct.
Is this another man acting like he knows everything that a woman wants/behaves? Why are there so many guys decoding all of female behavior and putting it in one tiny ass box. Not every woman is the same. Maybe his theories apply to some women out there but that makes me think of the kind of women men should avoid. If you are going for that hot girl that has zero personality and doesn't give a shit if the guy cares about her, then obviously he shouldn't date her or just have something casual with her and don't complicate it by making it serious. You can usually tell when the girl wants something meaningful or just wants to have fun and none of the strings attached. I think it's really simple. The women that know what they want, have the self-respect and maturity to voice it and show it are the exact ones that wouldn't even entertain a guy who acts like he doesn't care about her. However there's a difference between a guy licking your boots and a guy that likes you.
"Why are there so many guys decoding all of female behavior and putting it in one tiny ass box." - Because the way a woman behaves really does matter and tells you a hell of a lot. Women often DO do things that are different from what they say. That's why I too tell guys you need to pay attention to what a woman does.
The all or nothing mentality though sets you up for failure.
@anonymous As a man that has been w/ 100's of women I can tell you that for the most part they are all the same. One of the traits every woman has is the belief that they themselves are unique. in my opinion what frustrates women is that they don't understand men, so when they hear men explaining to other men what men want it triggers female insecurities.
@Vegasrunner so do all men want the same thing?
@Opinion Owner TY for your question. I find it telling that I've had to provide this response multiple times to women on GAG. "All" is not a pre-requisite for truth. All people don't vote yet we still have elected officials. All is used as a barometer by people searching for someone to validate their point. Furthermore your question is a bit broad. What "same things" are you referring to?
@Vegasrunner with that same thought, women should be perceived the same way. Instead of following videos like these or any other kind of advice especially by men who have only met a handful of women and then these same men act like all women are the same.
@Opinion Owner I'm not exactly sure what you mean. For starters how do you know how many women that guy has been with? in my opinion I don't see anything inaccurate in the video, again sounds like you're focused on the impossible, instead of the plausible. When a man meets a woman, there's no way for him to know what that specific woman is like, so he will have to use generalities and probabilities to even have a shot. It's just common sense. What women don't like is the fact that this thinking takes away their individualism and every woman wants to think of themselves as "special"
Nope any guy that thinks this is soo fucking stupid. Like I said in my simp question awhile back women love simps. Its not a weakness at all. We want a man that'll love and care for us. Even treat us like queens. There is no reason to settle for less from a man
@Apple1996 You are right that women love simps. They love them because they can use them.
I second this. We love simps. I have always been someone who goes above and beyond for my partners. Even when I'm single I've always enjoyed finer things in life, I'm never cheap with myself. Why would I settle for a guy who treats me in a cheap way when I don't do it to myself, why would I settle for a partner who doesn't go above and beyond for me when I do so all the fucking time?
@Apple1996. Apple, come on. Women use and abuse simps, and only marry them when they need a retirement plan. So after they have run through fuck boys, and want to have kids, they marry Mr. Simp (provider)... but divorce him an average of 8-10 years later.
Women not only don't love these Simps, they detest them.
@Apple1996, well that's fair. The problem is so many women are so badly damaged and addicted to drama dopamine, they can never be satisfied with a man who genuinely loves them.
I feel like he stole my talking points and put them on video Lol. Reality is all of this is accurate, and majority of men who deal w/ women on a regular agree w/ this. in my opinion the focus needs to be shifted from do they do this to why, and he does a good job of explaining this. Women love men who's intentions are unclear, once you make them clear you're going to run into problems.
I wouldn’t go as far as saying we “despise” men who love us. I would say “not attracted to” is more fitting. Of course I can’t speak for all women. I don’t understand it and I don’t understand it when men do the same thing either tbh. I think it’s more an issue of wanting what you can’t have and devaluing what you can have, which is insanity.
No... the only way this is true is for a woman that hate themselves.. or they don't actually love you.. He is just giving bullshit advice xD
@anemone978 If that's true then why do the men that are most successful w/ women refuse to commit to one woman?
@Vegasrunner Maybe cuz the women that popular men are collecting don't love themselves or have daddy issues?
@anemone978 So the only women that love themselves are the ones that can only attract low value men?
@Vegasrunner Women who love themselves get guys that support and love them.. whether or not he is high value is not up to you, it is up to the one in a relationship.. also not all men with money are trash that don't commit.. only clowns like you who will either find a young women who will never love them and just be there for the money or you will die alone.. you will never find true love which is more important than money just so you know, one day you might figure that out if you ever grow up but probably unlikely..
@anemone978 About 20% of men get 90% of women and most women share these 20% so are you trying to say that 90% of women don't love themselves? "All" is not a pre-requisite for the truth. Majority of men w/ money have multiple women. Things like "tru love and "dying alone" are female fears. Most guys are perfectly happy getting laid and then having the women leave.
@Vegasrunner Yeah okay... so 80% of men can not get women? Maybe in Japan but not here...
Everyone of my friends get girls..
Show me where you get your statistics from.
@anemone978 They can get them, but they have to battle each other for the 10% of women that are left. Are you saying that you're friends aren't in the top 20% of men?
@Vegasrunner My friends are just basic joes, sure a few of them are hot but I wouldn't say top 20%.. and they always sleep with plenty of girls and have girlfriend's when they want girlfriend's.. Even my little cousins ex best friend, he lived in my aunts trailer in her back yard and he always had pretty girls going in and out of there.. the guy is broke and lives in a trailer LMAO
There is no such thing as fighting... there is enough people to go around..
And yeah actually I would say 90% of women have issues that is why most women are hoes.. no self respecting woman with high esteem and confidence would slut herself out for free but the majority of women I know do.. damn look how many women even on here admit to being hoes... the majority xD
@anemone978 Ahh since you don't know aby HV you don't really have anything to compare it to. Your statement highlights female delusion.
1. A man's looks are only a fraction of his value,
2. The question isn't if they sleep w/ "plenty girls it's do they sleep w/as many as the top 20%
3. Unless you watched them have sex how would you know how many women they sleep w/?
4. The fact that your cousin sleeps in a trailer means that he can only attract women that have to settle for men w/ a home. A women isn't choosing a guy who lives in his aunts trailer over a man that owns property, those women were most likely slump busters. Would you date a guy that was broke and lived in a trailer?
5. Life I'd literally a fight for territory and women are included in that territory, simply because you don't compete does not mean others don't. Perhaps it's that mentality that has rendered your friends "Basic".
@anemone978 I agree, in fact I would argue that 99.9% of women have major issues and flaws when it comes to relationships, however I would argue that the biggest flaw is delusion, and you are demonstrating it rn.
@Vegasrunner 1 looks matter the most when picking a mate, regardless if the man was a billionaire he would have to be hot for me to fuck him. 2 That isn't the question.. and they sleep with enough.. 3 They tell me, I seen them take girls upstairs at parties, leave with girls.. I have seen one of them get a blowjob.. 4 it isn't my cousin, it is his friend... Yeah but even if they arnt picking him over a guy with a house he still gets all the girls he needs...
If woman have no value like you say why are men fighting over them? There are more women in the world than men. How am I delusional when you are the one pulling statistics out of your ass? 🤣🤣
@anemone978 For most women there only a small component, this is why a rich fat man typically has more women the a broke attractive one. There's millions of women in the world so who you "would fuck" isn't relevant. That's the only question. If your friends can only sleep w/ 5 women a year and I sleep w/ 60 a year then it shows the discrepancy. Lol, You've watched one guy get a blowjob so now you think all your friends are having sex? Tbh if they were really getting laid like that why would they be platonic friends w/ you? Incorrect, he gets all the girls he can, that's the part women don't get. The only women he can get are the ones no one else wants, so he gets what he can. They have no value to men like me and other HV men, because they can be easily replaced, your "basic" friends have to fight over them because that's all they can get. Most women are delusional, you're simply a reflection of most women.
1. You believe your personal experience is representative of general reality.
2. When you hear info you don't like you contrid8ct yourself in an attempt to win an argument vs excepting reality. (In one sentence your friends are basic in the next they fight over women?)
3. You attempt to use intangibles to define factual circumstances. (Love can't measured yet you're making the claim that it is a metric)
I could go on and on but those are just 3 ways you personally are delusional. Hope this helps.
@Vegasrunner LOL they sleep with more than 5 a year.. not all of them but most of them.. I know all my friends are having sex because most of them plowed through most girls that I know.. and plenty others I don't know.. Most of them I knew since I was a kid or teenager.. we are platonic because I won't sleep with them because they are dirty and most likely because I am not girly...
Also Trailer boy just sleeps with random girls from Tinder that everyone else is sleeping with and he doesn't want either and there is a lot of them! My aunt always complains about him having random girls around at night.
LOL look at you acting like your sex life matters xD Guys get what they can.. but they are getting laid so they ain't struggling to get girls..
1. You ALSO believe your life is the representative of general reality.. because I never got those statistics buddy..
2. They aren't rich is what I am saying just normal joes.. and I never said they fight over women they sleep with who they want.. YOU say they fight over women.. even though there are plenty of hoes to go around. So stop changing my words around on me to try to win..
3. Just cuz you don't believe that love isn't important don't mean I am wrong..
Also you are the one pretending you are rich and get lots of girls when in actual fact you can't and won't prove it which suggests you are the delusional one..
*that love IS important
@anemone978 TY for proving my point. They are only able to "plow through" girls you know. Which is literally a small amount, that they have to share. If they were getting as many girls as you say they would have no need to be platonic friends w/ a girl their not banging. Men that bang women don't have the time to hang out w/ girls as friends. Plus you're claiming their platonic because YOU won't sleep w/ them meaning they would sleep w/ u if they could but since their LV they can't which is why their forced to share girls or spend time in the friendzone. Yes those girls are called leftover women, he gets what's leftover after guys like me ignore them. The fact that he has to go on Tinder proves my point even more. Based on what you've said their really struggling, and you're even trying to make them sound good.
1. Yet you have no problem using your own personal experience?
2. By your own definition they are fighting over women as you claimed they all slept w/ your friends.
3. Love is important to you, and most women running out of time. Isn't it an interesting contradiction that you, have made claims about 3rd parties and pretended they are facts, w/out any evidence, yet believe others need to "prove" their lives to you. Please provide one piece of evidence that shows that all yourale friends get laid. Don't worry, I'll wait.
@Vegasrunner Yeah people I know is a small amount but they been with plenty I don't know aswell.. Since getting married I don't actually hangout with them.. we just have each other on socials and catch up from time to time. Your point being? I never said they were HV but they still get women and girlfriend's so they are content.. Like I said there is enough bitches to go around for everyone..
1. Yeah because I am not the one complaining people are using their own personal experience you are. I am just pointing out you are a hypocrite.
2. But those are just people they sleep with not the girls they date, so not fighting for them.. the ones they date I don't even know most the time..
3. Love was important to me since I can remember.. I always wanted to fall in deep love, has nothing to do with age.. Plus I already found a dude to settle down with.. You are older than me so really who is running out of time?
My proof is word of mouth from friends and the actual ones who slept with them.. that is how I know. Plus I see their lives by everything they post on socials.. so it kind of depicts what they be up to on the regular.. I could show you but what would I gain by showing you, that is a lot of work for nothing?
@anemone978 Lol, You claim they get laid then say you don't hang out w/ them? Do you realize your proving my point? They are content w/ what they can get, HV men get who they want. Unfortunately the metrics doesn't back that up if that was true your friends wouldn't have had to share a small number of women.
1. Technically you would be the hypocrite as you're asking someone to provide you data, for a conclusion w/out being able to provide any of your own. If personal experience is the bar I've been w/ 100's of women and they would all disagree w/ you, so my personal experience doesn't count but yours does?
2. That just reinforces that you don't know anything about these friends you just said you "rarely see anymore" u might want to be more emotionally based b4 responding bevause you're only disproving your opinion.
3. I can have sex w/ women until I die so a man never really runs out of time, women only have a short shelf life where there valuable. I routinely bang women much younger than 34 it's not difficult to do provided you are HV. Yes exactly it would be a lot of work for me to show you and I get nothing out of it at least we agree on that.
@Vegasrunner Who really cares what they get the point is you said 80% of men don't get woman but yes they do! Geez you are fucking annoying... I don't hangout with them now but in our teen years and early 20's I seen their behaviour.. and I still talk with them now.. I still see them dating and living with woman..
Yes and you just proved my point you slept with hundreds of sluts.. because a normal woman wouldn't fuck a guy who
A) isn't her boyfriend and B) is a man whore.. woman who do, are just like the trash from Tinder who hop dick to dick.. you might get more woman then the average guy but they are still trash women.. who have either self esteem issues, daddy issues or some sort of mental disorder that makes her think she could actually get a dickweed to fall in love with her and pay her every need xD
@anemone978 I said 80% of men are left to fight over the remaining 10%. Since you know that's true you've decided to be dishonest and exclude the 10% part, you've also been dishonest about the frequency you see your friends, which minimizes your overall credibility. "Normal" is your characterization, and just a way to cope w/ information that triggers you. This is a common trait of women, as they will attempt to shame men, and in this case women when they are faced w/ reality. I know this because I have been w/ 100's of them, however a less experienced man may actually take u seriois because of his naivety which is why this triggers you. The fact that you've made blanket statements about women you've never met and friends you don't associate w/ proves that your POV is based in an emotional, delusional feeling rather than in reality. Fortunately because of my experience I understand why you act like this as and am able to use this female flaw to bang even more women as I've had many women that behave as you do. TY for sharing.
@Vegasrunner Where have I been dishonest? I love how you lie and push your own ideas to pretend you won.. you do it it every discussion we have and it is really pathetic... I don't need to know people to know promiscuous women are sluts (women are sluts because of underlying issues).. and I do associate with my friends just we don't hangout anymore because we live in different cities/countries/etc.. people move bro doesn't mean you aren't friends anymore..
How am I shaming you? You shame yourself by being promiscuous in an attempt to feel better than the rest of the male population.. but the reality is you are just a pathetic hoe..
Yeah buddy I am sure you know why I act how I do..
@anemone978 For most of this interaction.
1) You originally claimed that "everyone of my friends get girls" then later admitted "since getting married, I don't hang out w/ them" If you don't hang out w/ them how would you know if they are getting laid? The fact that they don't live anywhere near year makes it even more unlikely that you know their sexual opportunities.
2) You claimed I said "80 of men don't get girls" the statement was 80% fight for the remaining 10% why did you omitt the 10% part?
3) You claim u don't need to "know people" to come to conclusions yet are quick to beg for proof from others regarding theirs.
4) I never mentioned anything about u shaming me. I said "women will attempt to shame men and in this case women" The fact that you conveniently leave out these parts is dishonest. Women do this a lot in verbal conversations, it more difficult to do in written because the evidence is still there.
"Shaming" is your coping mechanism, men are celebrated for being permiscuios women are not. That is way I can tell youbI've been w/ 281 women, yet u can only share your body count if the number is low enough to be socially acceptable. Of course I know why u behave how you do that is the advantage of being w/ a lot of women. U don't understand that because u don't have an actual concept of what it takes to be successful as a man and that's ok because you don't need to.
@Vegasrunner 1) Okay well when we were in our teens and early 20's they got plenty of girls and I witnessed it.. as for how do I know they are getting laid? they have girlfriend's pictures and photos on trips with them, they have kids, some with multiple girls, so yes they are getting laid.. lol We still talk together about or lives and shit in group chats.. so it is kind of self explanatory..
2) You say that it is only 10%.. and you say you sleep with these 90% women, but you don't date them.. so they are obviously giving the cookie to different guys not just you.. and you don't know what kind of guys they are sleeping with.. so how are 90% of women dating HVM when apparently HVM don't keep them? The facts show more people are poor than rich.. so obviously more people are dating LVM which shows you are completely delusional in your statistics. No one is fighting for shit.. so keep your delusions to yourself..
3) Yeah because peoples actions define who they are as people.. so yes I can say that by how they live and conduct themselves.. if they act like a slut and look like a slut it is highly likely they are a slut.. I only want proof from you because you are anonymous dick that always likes to write to me acting like you run the world or some shit.. but you never prove it you just put out your delusional bullshit...
4) Just because I misunderstood your bullshit doesn't mean I am dishonest LOL
And my coping mechanism for what exactly? LMAO even if I was a hoe, I could tell you how many men I been with because you don't know me and there is no repercussions on an online shitty site like this.. but unlike you I don't have to sleep with hundreds of people to feel my self worth, I have that shit already built in..
Yeah so tell me why I act the way I do.. you talk big but with no substance to back it up..
@anemone978
1) That's 15 years ago, maybe u could claim that they used 2 get girls. The kids r a good indicator if they are only a few years old n lumped together, however it doesn't invalidate that sex is w/ the leftover 10%. If anything it only raises the probability.
2) This is an example of not understanding relationships. It is possible that those women r having sex w/ other men, however it's going 2 b the same 10% because women don't date down. No woman goes from getting banged in a mansion to banging a guy in a trailer. Most women would rather share a winner than have a loser 2 themselves. That is why society associates successful men w/ multiple women. I keep anywhere from 3-5 girls in my rotation at a time, which mathematically means 1-4 guys looking to "date" don't have those women in the pool. Yes, more people are poor meaning rich men are scarce, personally add in the fact that I'm black 6'2 1/2 and have a sports background, two degrees and own a business and the number of men meeting those metrics become even smaller. Studies show that 1/3 of men under 30 are virgins or haven't had sex in a year.
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3) another example of female entitlement, as your wants mean nothing to me. You're just as anonymous, yet I'm not begging u to prove every position u take. I read the information and use it for my benifit. Ifyou're unable to do that then that's your problem.
4) It means you're either illiterate or dishonest. Calling women sluts is your coping mechanism because it's easier than accepting the evidence that HV men sleep w/ a lot of women. Notice u didn't so this is another example of your dishonesty. I sleep w/ 100's of people because I enjoy sex, and worked hard to build up value in myself, so I can have options. If u had as much "Self worth" as you claim you wouldn't shame women. That's easy. You act the way u do because you are basic, u make decisions on how information makes u feel vs the facts. Permiscuios women trigger u because deep down you understand that the more Permiscuios women that are available, the less likely you can use sex to incentives your man to provide you the attention you need. You're original comment was on a post from a man w/ nearly 400k subscribers, yet w/ no evidence u claimed that his advice was "bs" You don't want "proof" you just want information so you can then discredit the information as a way to cope w/ the fact that most people disagree w/ you POV.
@Vegasrunner 1) well most of them their kids are like 4 to a couple months old.. so yeah.. and most are now with someone seriously.. tho some are still man whores... so yes I am sure they are getting laid..
2) Okay say you are right in all of this.. what happens to all these women you all use up once they turn 36-40ish.. and apparently nobody wants them.. are they the ones that get with the rich 60 year olds or do they end up alone.. because you say women have a time limit and they don't date down..
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3) Yeah you do actually.. You asked for proof how I know they are getting laid.. Unless I have videos I can't prove it.. I can only go by common sense of what I see and am told lol
4) Well I will take illiterate because I haven't been dishonest..
What are you talking about? I know HVM sleep with lots of women.. how does that change the fact the women are whores? Promiscuous people are sluts this is a fact.. we already discussed this in previous discussions..
LOL my dishonesty? Fucken hell.. if you want to know so bad I only fucked 1 guy.. and fooled around with another..
I shame women because I don't believe in all the sluttiness that is going on with people and how dating has changed for the worse.. If you don't shame them for bs behaviour nothing will get better.. Plus I have always looked down on sluts since I was younger I used to make fun of my older sisters trash bag friends because they were hoes.. I still feel the same way about garbage.. it is beneath me.
And actually more people agree with me.. only dumb guys who can't get laid believe what that guy is saying.. Sure no one likes clingy guys.. hell no one likes clingy people in general because it is annoying AF but all women like guys to love them deeply.. if they don't they have issues..
My proof is in my life and the people I come across on the daily... so just like you see what you see and experience.. I see what a see and experience.. so my POV is exactly that.. my POV.. if you don't like it don't write to me, just block me..
@anemone978 1) Men can only be whore makers, however even if that was true that doesn't disprove that they have to settle for the leftover women, or if they are getting anywhere near the number of women as a hv man. Your falling into the trap of assigning value to these women simply for being women. There value lies in how hot they are and how many pf them these guys can pull. For men volume is the metric of success.
2) Reality says I'm right. They end up alone, rich men of any age don't want 40 yro woman. What would they even have to offer? Most women keep their Disneyland delusion until about 26-28 around 29-33 they scramble for a guy usually one that they previously rejected. If they fail they use their last couple years to sleep around (have u heard of the dirty 30's?) Once rhe woman hits 40 she's pretty useless so she will focus on career or maybe kids but that's when she starts realizing a lot of things I say. Why do you think most relationship is advice is given by 35+ yro men and women 18-25
@anemone978
3) That's another example of your dishonesty. I never asked you for "proof" of anything. I asked how could you know they're getting laid, which you said basically u know because you said so. I could take that at face value, however when you start begging me to prove my personal life to you I must point out the obvious hypocrisy. Ironically this also validates my point. I man like me doesn't need to "prove" something to a woman like you because you're not bringing me any value. You're probably used to guts acquessing to your demands bevause as u pointed there not HV enough to tell u to kick rocks.
4) That's fair. You need to be able to read the actual words if you want to debate someone in good faith. Words like "sluts and where's are derogatory terms you're using to describe women" Permiscuios woman may be sluts Permiscuios men would be slutmakers. You discussed it and you were just as wrong then as you are now. Your body count is completely irrelevant to me, so not sure why u shared it. Those are all you personal perspectives but they are far from facts. I would argue that "dating" has never been better if you're a successful guy. Women fought hard for the right to choose now your mad because they choose men like me? Lol, who did u think they were going to choose. Furthermore if you're married as you claim what business is it of yours who sleeps w/ who. Sounds like you're making the mistake of thinking u matter, you don't. You're trying to claim that "more" people agree w/ you while commenting on a post w/ nearly 50k views that completely contradicts you. This is the delusion people talk about.
That's called antedotole evidence, and it doesn't "prove" anything. Why would I block you, you literally are providing written content that validates my POV on women, and you're narcissistic enough to not even realize it. Please continue this dialougue, it is gold!
@Vegasrunner 1) That is what you think.. and that is fine but that isn't reality..
2) That is hilarious because these women don't end up alone.. Shit was not like this a few years ago.. but keep pushing your agenda like you are right LOL People in there 90's be getting married for fuck sakes XD
3) Every thing you just said is just bullshit and you are contradicting yourself.. You are just a phony clown.. a man like you doesn't need to prove because no one actually cares bud..
cont
4) The actual definition of a slut is a woman who sleeps with many casual people so I am not wrong in my opinion and the fact you are a slutmaker doesn't make you any better than the next guy because you are all basically the same thing.. you have no substance besides money.. if you had substance you wouldn't be here talking to someone like me.. but considering women are dumb they will always sleep with men like you. You also said I was dishonest because I never said how many guys I been with but now you don't care, Okay LOL
Why would I be mad women choose men like you? They can go right ahead the fact is I am mad people are sleeping around with ALL men.. and have no want for actual relationships.. so now there is no need for men to commit because there is plenty of trash to go around.
I care because my kids are growing up in a piece of shit world like this.. and it is ridiculous to see there is so many people with bad morals and ideas and people with low IQ's are being rewarded for their shit behaviour..
I am commenting about the ones in this particular question.. many agree with me.. what do I care with the ones that agree on the video? The only people who agree with what he is saying and watch that shit are men like you and your ideas.. no normal person even watches or searches those videos.. So yeah you can all slap each others backs LOL So yes in the whole world there are many dumbass men like you.. "slap hands" "slap hands" 50K don't make me laugh...
My opinion doesn't matter.. but just like my opinion doesn't matter neither does yours buddy.. But the fact you keep commenting on my answers (when other women have the same thoughts as me in these questions) that shows my opinion does matter to you.. because if it didn't I would never hear from you.. You say I am an "entitled woman" and delusional but look how you think you and your opinions matter so much, you are a walking talking contradiction LOL
@anemone978
1. Based on what I've read from you, being on the otherside of your reality, is probably what has made me so successful w/ women. Men don't call other men sluts as an insult as having sex is seen as an accomplishment amongst men. You're own emotional trauma has triggered you to be derogatory toward women who have sex.
2. Again your saying something u can't possibly have any knowledge of while attempting to pass it off as fact. That is a typical delusional female trait. I banged women in the 90's as well. TBH the only thing that has changed about relationship dynamics is that because of social media someone naive like you is being introduced to the reality of how the top men think. B4 social media u could live in your delusion and never actually have to hear that the world is larger than your bubble of friends.
3. Ironically you claim "contridiction" but can't point one out. In writing no less. Check and Mate.
@anemone978 Lol, that's something unfortunately you'll never understand. The fact that I can have sex w/ 100's of women is literally a metric used to separate men. Because of this skill, I attract more customers for my business, more invites to exclusive events, etc. What u fail to understand, is that I'm listening to your false rant BECAUSE I have substance. I spent over 10 years working in the LV nightclub industry w/ my only job being to get as many hot women under 25 in the club, and I was really good. Because of that I got to be a fly om wall for hours of female conversation. Learning a lot of things that apply to this interaction. The original video triggered u so you responded hoping that simps and the sisterhood would validate your feelings. When I respond w/ a simple question that validates the authors point, u can't refute it so u resort to immaturity, and shaming tactics. The sane tactics women would resort to when they didn't get there way in the nightclubs. Throughtout the conversation you lie by omission, (I never asked you ti disclose your body count, please share where I did) Like every other woman u believe your special so u have to continue telling me who u would "choose" as if I ever asked you. Women are simply a numbers game and what one won't so the next one will. Being mad that people are sleeping w/ all men literally proves my point, deep down u understand women's only value is sex anden that can get it are less likely to commit. Which is both mine and the authors point. The kids part is fair, however how is being delusional going to help? U should be laughing bevause you're ignoring 50k others POV, while trying to tell me yours matters. It's u that people are laughing at. I would be thr best person to speak on your opinion as it sounds like u agree w/ me. You just don't like the way it makes u feel and for women they believe that alone means something is wrong.
@Vegasrunner Blah blah blah... Don't write me again.. you just ignore everything I say like your right and only your opinion matters.. I am done wasting my time on useless conversations with people who deny and just ignore what they themselves wrote.. and if you do write to me again I know it is because you are obsessed with me.. Good Bye..
@Vegasrunner 1. No one cares if you are successful with women or not.. at least I don't so why do you keep telling me over and over again..
Yeah that is the difference between men and women, we are the gatekeepers of sex so when women don't keep their legs closed it ruins society.. So I will talk down to women who are stupid and give it out for free.. because without sluts we wouldn't have arrogant men like you around..
Who cares my views are right and just..
2. It is kind of common sense.. lol if you don't know people are having sex with the people they are dating you have to pretty dumb.. but yes keep throwing out the delusional insult.. Then how come in the 90's people were always dating but now you can't even be official boyfriend or girlfriend, now it is like some serious thing.. like you can't just breakup in a week? Mhhmm.. no now stupid people have the internet so now it is much easier to brainwash people in thinking in stupid immature ways instead of the ways of the past..
3. I meant Hypocritical, not contradictory since you can't prove anything you say but question all the shit I tell you.. Just like you are saying you always been a ladies man, most men don't really loose that, so why am I delusional to think my friends tell me the truth and still sleep with lots of women since they were always ladies men..
@anemone978 That is certainly an opinion you are welcome to hold. You would not he the first woman to fold, when her opinion is held up to scrutiny.
@anemone978 Um, obviously that's relevant, the content we are commenting on literally is giving men advice on how to be successful w/ women. Having success validates that opinion that should be pretty self explanatory. Correct. Woman are the "gatekeepers of sex" which is why men who can consistently get through that gate will always be seen as HV. This shouldn't be that hard to understand. It doesn't "ruin society" it ruins female leverage in relationships and exposes the fact that that's all they have to offer.
2) This is a standard triggered female rant w/ no basis in reality.
3) Technically you would be the hypocritical one, as you want me to take at face value that your friends from 20 years ago are successful w/ woman yet, require me to prove to you that I am. You're delusional because you're attempting to move the goalposts in the hopes that I won't notice. You friends having sex was a dynamic you created. You are the one that claimed they are LV. Which makes sense since you claimed they had to fight over the same limited number of girls. HV men don't have to share girls w/ their friends, they may pass her around as a gift but we certainly aren't limited to only a handful of girls in our circles.
@Vegasrunner I just don't get why you are even talking to me this is pointless back and forth.. I stated what I think from the people I been around, shows, movies, books, family, friends, enemies, online people, life experiences.. That is my own opinion and my stance, I don't get what is the problem that you feel the need to always write to me about my opinions? I feel women who put out on the regular are sluts and are ruining the world slowly but surely and creating men like you.. What more is there to say.. You won't change my opinion and I don't really care about yours.. The guy is right about catching toxic whores but you won't catch a normal loving woman with the same tactic.. and I am not wrong.. because a guy who pushes and pulls and shows no interest.. a smart woman will just walk away..
1. Sure you are telling me this, but just like you don't believe what I tell you.. I have no idea who you are so that information does not prove anything lol and for a "hot shot" in his 40's 281 isn't even a lot LOL
3. Yes, if im a hypocrite so are you because if you don't take my words at face value why should I take yours.. Yes most guys pass girls around or inform each other they are easy so they usually will sleep with the same girls.. They also slept with their own ones and moved cities so they aren't necessarily sharing a small handful of girls.. but really who gives a shit what my friends are doing.. at the end of the day if you ain't getting virgins you are ALL sharing other dudes sloppy seconds.. HVM aren't limited.. give me a break.. if you wanted to fuck me, could you? No you couldn't and obviously I am not the only one you can't fuck that is why you get triggered by my responses.. because there is no other reason to be messaging me especially on a Friday, go fuck some girls buddy, since you have such a luxurious life..
@anemone978 Its unfortunate u are spending your time in a pointless conversation. For me you are a wealth of content that validates the incongruency of female behavior. I respond to any opinion that seems inaccurate, you may just have a lot of them. I don't get into name calling so I can't speak to the derogatory terms you use. If by me you mean successful men, we are self made a woman can't make a man. U should never enter a debate looking to change the debaters "opinion" that us a sign of ignorance. Words like "normal and loving are subjective and are traits females look for in men not vicea versa. For you they are qualifiers to help make your belief more palatable. It's a basic trick women use. By claiming no "smart"women you're saying anyone who contradicts your POV isn't smart therfore they don't count as examples. It's circular reason and is patently false. Simply because you have a standard of intelligence doesn't mean it's the standard.
1) This is another example of your dishonesty as I never said I don't believe me. It's u that doesn't belive me because it makes u feel bad. Been having sex for about 28 years which averages out to approximately 10 per year. Average man in America has approximately 7 sexual partners in their life.
3) I took your story at face value. You are still the only hypocrite. This only proves my point. You brought your friends into this conversation. I don't want virgins, never be a woman's 1st or her last. The guys that want virgins are the Uber religious men that are afraid to compete. Why would someone like me want to settle for you. Being HV has nothing to do w/ banging one woman it has to do w/ not having to tolerate BS from any. I'm not banging any woman until my Sunday chick comes over. I'm spending my Friday exactly how I want to laying on my couch watching police interrogation videos relaxing after a long week.
@Vegasrunner Yes it is but when you always try to make me look bad so I get stuck in these pointless back and forth's with you.. I know it is actually that you are obsessed with me because many other women on this same question have said almost the same thing as me but you aren't writing to them... seems a bit suspicious..
Why would you be into name calling when these are the women you associate with. If you did put them down you would only lower your own status because these are the type women you sleep with.
So if you are not trying to change my opinion what is your goal? Yes it is subjective but it just shows you are not getting any women actually worth anything.. You are just pointing out men like you value quantity over quality.. you are getting one type of woman and that is the causal "slut" not a classy woman.
Look how you talk like women are liars and pull tricks.. no I just speak my truth and you can't handle it.
You never took me at face value or you would of believed my friends got girls and you don't... so.. you are just the same.. I brought them in to prove you don't have to be rich or pull stupid tricks to get girls, anyone can get girls.. which you still think you are doing better or getting better quality women when really they are all the same LOL
I'm not saying settle for me, I am saying if you have such skills why can't you sleep with me? I thought you are supposed to be able to sleep with anyone you want.. I guess you can only pull the easy chicks, right?
Oh I see hahaha the Sunday woman LOL
Yes.. and obviously you enjoy talking to me since you are spending a good day talking to me..
@anemone978 I can't "make u look bad" u did that to yourself as your POV is incongruent w/ your actions and lack rationale and critical thinking. The belief that someone is "obsessed" w/ you simply highlights another female trait, as it feeds your narcissism and allows u to justify your dishonesty. This is actually a theme women will use in relationships attempting to claim that any man that stands up to her is "obsessed" w/ her. It is these written statements that make this interaction valuable to the audience. I don't recall name calling anyone please share where I did. Your goal question is an excellent one. My Goal is the same as the authors To educate men about female nature. The reason why his and other videos are so popular is because that subject matter resonates w/ a wide audience. In business this is know as targeted marketing and is used as a statistical fact. Your belief of "I don't like it or it makes me feel bad, has no bearing on the reality. Your belief on the type of woman I get isn't based on any reality either it's based in delusion because as u have said you know nothing about me and a false formula as you've convinced yourself that any women that had sex is LV. Yet you have created a profile and are attempting to pass it off as fact. This is something I strategically use GAG for because it shows men that women don't need, evidence, proof or facts, they will operate based on how they feel and even go so far to defend those false positions even in the face of obvious contridictiona. ing it?
@anemone978 cont I still take u at face value. I believe in 30+ years of life your friends have had sex. Have they had sex w/ as many women as HV men. Have they had sex w/ 9's and 10's and do they have 9's and 10's chasing them. Those would be the metrics. That's an odd question, why would I wasn't to sleep w/ an anonymous old woman on a SM site? That's a bit disturbing no? Yes I do enjoy this interaction or I wouldn't be doing it. As I mentioned b4 you provide tons of content highlighting how the average woman thinks. A better question would be if you don't deserve it why are you do
@Vegasrunner @Vegasrunner I never made myself look bad, I said you are trying to.. not that you actually did.. Then explain why it is me you are talking to and not some other woman with similar beliefs as me? Re read what you wrote and what I wrote.. I said you don't name call because you associate yourself with girls of no class.. LMAO so you are basically wasting my time pretending you understand me for "your business" but the chicks you pick up are not like me so isn't that is basically pointless.. I never said women who have sex are LV.. I said women that are promiscuous are LV which is true according to society or slut shamming would not exist..
Says the guy who says he understands why I do what I do and all women are the same.. isn't that a delusional belief bud?
You are saying its odd just because you know you can't, LOL and calling me old when you are older than me XD
I know I actually provide nothing to you, but since you are delusional you love to put things together in your head.. so have fun with your misinformation you pass around to a bunch of losers who can't get laid on their own accord LOL A better question is what?
Oh and if you are so understanding of the female brain why has no one even liked your comment bud, since you are all facts and a guru to men?
@anemone978 I can't speak to that, as this is something you brought up. Excellent question, this is another example of female narcissism For some odd reason u believe a conversation w/ u equals exclusion of others. I can easily carry on a conversation w/ you while having conversations with others. I don't "name call" because it's immature and is for those w/out skills to articulate their POV's. Most chick's have your mindset, I've already said that. "Slut shaming" only proves insecurities of the shamer. Maybe if I haven't been w/ 100's of women and listened to 10's of thousands more as a Host, however if I can use the skills based off these beliefs to get what I want then it means their is evidence. That would be like you making the claim that buying an umbrella when the forecast calls for rain is delusional. I'm saying you're too old for a woman to get a HV man. Im sure you're fine for the trailer friend but most guys like me are going to stick w/ younger, hotter women. It's interesting that u categorize guys that can't get laid as "losers" which means you recognize value in men that get laid? TY for your last comment as it highlights more female hypocrisy. The original video has tons of likes, yet you discredit them, yet likes now somehow have value? Let that sink in.
@Vegasrunner No the reason I bring it up is because you must know by now I do not like you but you always seem to comment.. which I find very annoying because other people on the same questions with the same ideas don't get messaged by you.. its like go bother someone else. I feel you always come back to me because I bet most others won't give you the time of day..
It isn't insecurities it is my beliefs what don't you get about it..
Yes, but I have doubts you even do because 281 isn't a lot for someone who apparently has skills plus money.. No actually that isn't the same.. but also forecasts are not always right..
LMAO okay dude I think you would have more fun with trailer dude than me..
No I categorize men that look up to people like you as losers.. If you can't find a mate on your own you must have serious issues..
Yeah likes from the same kind of guys who watch those types of videos and then this site that has much more variety of people not the losers who don't know how to get woman.. and we realize when you aren't surrounded by your followers you stand alone on your ideas..
In your comment before what did you write but not finish? "A better question would be if you don't deserve it why are you do"
@anemone978 Lol, none of those things are my issue. Women tend to believe their feelings should matter, they don't. Those are your problems if your not emotionally intelligent enough to hold a civilized conversation then u probably shouldn't comment your opinion on a public forum. Your "beliefs" highlight your insecurities. I'm not sure if it's a lot or a little but it's my body count, u wouldn't be the best person to comment on it because as u said you don't know any HV men. That's literally the point of the apology. The forecast doesn't always have to be accurate, but u should prepare as if it could be. The trailer guy is a friend of yours and something else u brought up. I don't have any poor friends because they hold no value to me. I've found 281 mates and counting. Thank you again for proving my original point, there are so many likes from guys because the average guy struggles to get laid. This is literally why there is a market for educating men on female nature why there isn't the reverse. Your rubutle ro this fact is "it makes me feel bad so it's not true" That is the definition of delusional.
@Vegasrunner Or I could just block you because you are an annoying and don't know shit from chocolate.. I don't care if I get messages from other people I just don't want to hear from you.
They are not insecurities they are morals bro.. if you had any you might understand.. and just so you know your lifestyle highlights your insecurities like a big red flag.. LOL It's low I am letting you know it is especially for a guy who claims he can have any girl he wants and is HV.. The analogy is it could rain doesn't mean it will rain.. So just like your claims they either will work or they won't because you do not know how all women will behave in a situation. No one can possibly know that though you love to pretend you do. The average guy doesn't struggle only ugly, shy or weird guys do.. which isn't the majority but I guess when you lump them all together it seems like a lot.. actually there is people who educate women on how to land guys and their behaviour.. so.. I like your dishonesty..
LOL you are just saying it makes me feel bad I never said that anywhere it's just "your facts" are not facts LOL
I also love how you didn't answer my question as well...
@anemone978 Please do! That would help me prove my point. Interesting that you're opinion is morals yet my facts are insecurities. TY for sharing, 281 is low, how many women have your husband been with? Please share where I said "I can have any girl I want" I said I don't want you. Lol, No shit which is exactly point of the apology. Do u understand what an apology is? "All is not a pre-requisite for success, all people don't vote yet we still have elected officials. The metric "all" is used by people who agree w/ a situation yet are looking for a way to disqualify it. Women are simply a numbes game, as long as you know how most women will behave your chances of success increase. You're struggling w/ the "Every woman is special belief" Studies show nearly a 1/3 of men under 30 haven't had sex in a year. That's as big of a struggle as I gets for men via relationship dynamics. There is zero market for educating women on getting men while education on men attracting women is a 100 million + market. In fact the most lucrative female relationship expert Courtney Ryan teaches men how to get women. This fact alone highlights your delusion. "The fact is I am mad that people are sleeping around w/ all men" are you now claiming you didn't write this?
@Vegasrunner That is the only reason I don't.. because I know you are immature and will say "she couldn't handle it so she blocked me" What are your facts?
I said your lifestyle is a red flag LOL
What is it you are talking about sir? is it an analogy? or an apology? because you keep saying an apology LOL
I don't struggle with shit.. everybody is different.. not special.. and what studies? From who?
Yes there is a market just because you don't believe there is doesn't mean it isn't one.. because now there are more scumbags like you running around women need to understand men to be able to find the good guys.. Prove it is a fact.. or don't call me delusional.
LOL I never said "I didn't say that", but that isn't what we are talking about at the moment.. you are just bring random shit back up..
@anemone978 Lol, yes I am aware, the reason why you don't. I'm aware because of the countless hours I've spent studying female behavior. There's nothing to "handle" I' presented a question, designed to get a perspective on your POV regarding the original post. It made u feel bad, u became defensive and instead of using critical thinking continue to double down on falsehoods many of which only validates the original videos point. It's unfortunate that my lifestyle is a red flag for you, however I don't see what relevance that has for me. But yet you understand enough to know it was an anology? Your need to share w/ me unsolicited opinions is evidence you struggle w/ the everyone is special belief. Great example is u claim my lifestyle is a red flag. To who? If that were true men wouldn't continue to have a roster of women. If you understand how to do basic business studies you would no better than to write something this factually false. You do realize in America industry Financials are public record don't you? A woman doesn't "find a man" men approach woman, and they hope they do enough to be approached by a top rider man, then they have to figure out how to keep them. Most women fail at that bevause"good" is subjective and it's that delusion that makes more women chase the small percentage of men that understand how to exploit this delusion.
Lol, - U can't make this up
1. You claim you want a fact.
2. Are presented w/ a verbatim quote that shows you lied.
3. Admit to the lie
4. And then attempt to change the subject as if the fact that you have been dishonest throughout those conversations isn't relevant.
And you sincerely believe anyone would read this and not spot your deceit? You even double down to claim I'm "making stuff up" one sentence after admitting to lying about your quote.
@Vegasrunner "Great example is u claim my lifestyle is a red flag. To who? If that were true men wouldn't continue to have a roster of women."
Just because people have red flags.. doesn't mean tons of people don't ignore them! Or a lot of the questions on this site wouldn't exist.
"A woman doesn't "find a man" men approach woman, and they hope they do enough to be approached by a top rider man, then they have to figure out how to keep them."
You do know it takes two people to tango but apparently women have no say in the matter, according to you they just wait around and peacock until a guy decides to picks them LOL
It's funny how so many people are delusional but not you LOL
I didn't lie and I didn't admit to lying.. You clearly are are delusional sir..
@anemone978 My question was who is making the claim of red flags? Yes, there is also a saying that women wait at the finish line for the winners. This is more applicable today than back in your day. Not sure delusion is funny, as ultimately reality will always hit. Most of what you said has been a lie, zi simply brought up one that you happened to admit to. Part of the reason is because your belief isn't grounded in any sort of reality.
Women don't respect men who love them more than the woman loves him. If she knows she can carry your balls in her purse,. you are fucked.
They don't hate them, but they don't respect them and are less likely to be attracted to them.
Nope.
How can you hate someone who loves you?
I don’t hate.
I feel grateful and a bit emotionally scared of them, because I know I might end up falling in love with them too.
That’s not true.
I’ve only loved one man in my life and I fell for him because of how hard he loved, how he never gave up on me, how he cared for me and how he understood me.
I could be perfectly selfish and he loved me.
I have no regrets, at that time he was a man worth loving. If only he never changed.
No that's stupid. He's just another grifter.
I had to resist posting this.
Some probably do, but I doubt it is anywhere near a majority.
I really hope no man is stupid enough to believe that.
m I've never been in any kind of situation like this myself
Hate? No..
People tend to like what they can't have, but that doesn't mean they hate what they do
Nothing would put me off more than a man who dislikes women.
I don't understand why women just aren't attracted to the one who loves them the most and all the women dis agree which is ironical 😂
Doesn't even have enough courage to admit that
women who do this are messed up
This is probably true. It's extremely sad, though.
No why would we?
You are one of those Red Pill assholes
Idgaf. Men who love women are beta men.
Did a 3rd grader write this question or something
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