My father buys expensive gifts for my sisters but he never even ask to help me. I feel unloved? Why he hurts me like this?

[Anonymous]

[slatyb]

Have you been more successful than the rest of the family? He could be punishing you for making him feel inadequate.

[Asker]

Yes I am

[slatyb]

That's likely it. You can't change him, you can only change your interactions with him. The first step is to lower your expectations. Limit time with your family and find supportive friends.

[MrZameer]

really sad,
some parents do that, they shouldn't do that
It's injustice.

[Asker]

I feel really bad. Since my childhood I was the one who was really trying, I have 2 university degrees. My parents never appreciated me or complimented me. I always suffered mentally. I always feel alone

[MrZameer]

awww,
really so sad for you my friend.
Hopefully they will realise their mistakes, and give you importance and make/do some things for you

[MrZameer]

don't feel alone my friend.
we all are with you dear.

[Asker]

Thank you

[MrZameer]

always welcome my friend

[MrZameer]

you can talk me any time if you want.
feel free to DM me.

[MrZameer]

Thanks for MHO

[RebelinSteel]

Is that you Cinders?

[Pterodon]

Maybe he feels you don’t need help

[Asker]

I need bur he always acts like he does not love me and loves other daughters more

[Pterodon]

Have you talked to him about this?

[goebenbreslau]

he's a jerk