If he's not ready to marru me now does that mean im not the 1?

[Anonymous]

[Vesuvius87]

How long have you been dating him? Are you two living together? Did you ever establish a timeframe with him? Lastly does he share your same views about marriage?

Base on your answers to those questions, that should give you an idea of where your relationship stands?

[petitedollbabee]

Well that depends.. if you’ve only been together for less than a year, then no, that’s delusional. But if it’s been 6+ years, then that’s a different story. Do you know if he even wants marriage? Have you discussed it?

[236color]

Guys don't marry until they are ready. Doesn't matter if you're the one or not. Now if he's age appropriate, 30-35ish , he's in prime ready range. If he isn't ready soon, he may never be.

[Danny_dan92]

Not necessarily