I’ve been dating this guy for like 6 months. Now I think about it I don’t even know if we’re dating I’m so hung up on him and it’s causing me stress. He’s never took me out for a meal we just go to one another’s houses and chill.
I started to get in my feelings the other day and he told me he didn’t want a relationship with me right now but he does in the future, he said he wants me to wait for him and how much he loves me etc. He said at the moment though that’s not what he’s looking for.
After him saying all this I still went to see him when he asked and we slept together and he was saying how much he loves me, he then proceeded to ask if I could do his washing and pay for his passport and I did so aaprt of me feels like he’s using me for necessities too?
He also knows I’m moving house soon and said at some point he’d like to move in with me since he still lives with his mom. But I just feel used? I know he’s told me he does not want a relationship but why keep me holding on then? Am I at fault for still seeing him when he’s told me this? since I’ve seen him he’s just being distant now which is what he’s like a lot recently. Everytime I see him I can just feel someone else’s energy on him I can’t explain. I’d just like him to message me everyday and see me a lot but am I just hurting myself here? He will also call me to do things for him etc and I just do it because I feel like it will make him like me more but it never does?
Am I just holding on to someone who just is using me as a person? I feel like a little girl writing this even though I’m 22 dealing with stuff like this?
