Im not sure why he kinda shows off that when he was young all girls wanted him and he was very popular and would get the most beautiful girls.
That he never approached any girl, girls approqched him first literally giving their phone numbers to him
Im not sure why he says all that to me?
Like what he expects me to say or to think?
Should i be lucky or smth? to have him?
Im confused.
I was the most difficult girl to get he said. I was the biggest challenge for him.
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Hmm that is a bit strange that your boyfriend keeps bringing up how popular he was with girls in the past. To me it almost sounds like he's trying too hard to impress you or prove something. Like maybe deep down he's still insecure so he has to try and act all cool about how all these girls wanted him. Not sure what kind of reaction he's looking for from you either! I get wanting your girl to feel lucky to have you, but bragging about past conquests isn't really the way to do it. And saying you were the biggest challenge makes it seem like he's just trying to boost his ego, not be sweet to you. I'd just try laughing it off or changing the subject when he gets in those moods. You don't need to prove yourself or think you're not good enough - you landed him, so clearly you've got something great going on! He should appreciate what he's got now instead of living in the past. Maybe have a chat and let him know it's not a big turn on to hear constant ex-girl stories. Keep it focused on you two.
maybe he feels lucky that he "got you" and had to work for it
It’s the equivalent of those men who reminisce on their high school glory days. Life didn’t get much better after graduating.