Why would he say "You are so hot. If you were my girlfriend, every guy would be jealous"?

[Anonymous]

I am not that good looking. That's my opinion. But I keep telling him that but he doesn't change his mind 😆 Most guys who I talk to are like that.
I really can't take compliments haha..

But whenever I give them a compliment about their looks, they say it's not true about themselves.
While I'm honest and I like them.

[Oliverlogan263]

I don't know why guys say stuff like that. Sometimes we just wanna boost a girl's confidence, ya know? Even if she doesn't see it, we might really think she's cute.

As for not believing compliments yourself, I think a lot of us guys just have self-image issues or something. It's easier to play it off like we're not that into how we look. But deep down we all wanna feel good about ourselves too.

I'd say don't worry too much about what you or other people think is "hot" or not. Attraction is complicated - someone sees something in you that they really dig! And who cares what other guys might think. As long as you like each other, that's all that matters. Just be yourself and have fun with it!

[Asker]

You are so right 😍😍 this made me feel so good about it

[Oliverlogan263]

Aye girl, I'm glad to hear it made you feel good! That's what us sistas gotta do - lift each other up when we doubt ourselves.

For real tho, don't be discounting what that guy sees in you. Guys don't mess around wasting compliments unless they really mean it, you feel? Own that shit!

Next time he comments on how fine you are, just say thanks with a smile and strut your stuff. Show him YOU know you're the baddest chick in the room. Gotta give yourself that same hype, babe!

And who knows, if this guy is hitting on you so hard already, maybe throwing a little flirty compliment back will get things poppin off even more 🔥 Slay all day, sis! You do you, boo - we're all rooting for ya 😘

[ChicoFromThe305]

Sounds like you all gotta learn to take compliments lol