He has a lot of female friends?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has a lot of female friends which is okay I guess but he mentions them a lot. Like he’ll say “my friend xyz… she …”. “Oh my friend is doing this”. “I’m helping my friend with abc she …”

It’s getting to the point where I can’t even tell if he’s talking about the same lady friend or a whole bunch of different ones.

Is this a weird thing to be annoyed about? What should I do?

[Anonymous]

It's understandable to feel annoyed or uncomfortable if your boyfriend talks about his female friends frequently, especially if it's starting to feel excessive or overwhelming. However, it's important to communicate openly and honestly with him about your feelings and to try to understand his perspective as well.

It's possible that your boyfriend is just a very social person and has a lot of friends, both male and female, that he likes to talk about. It's also possible that he is trying to make you feel more comfortable and included in his social life by mentioning his friends and what they're doing.

It's important to remember that having friends of the opposite sex is normal and healthy, and it doesn't necessarily mean that your boyfriend is cheating on you or is not committed to your relationship. However, if you feel uncomfortable with the amount of attention he's giving to his female friends, it's important to communicate that to him in a respectful and non-confrontational way.

Try telling him that you understand that he has a lot of friends, both male and female, but that you're starting to feel a bit overwhelmed by the amount of attention he's giving to his female friends specifically. Ask him if there's a reason why he talks about them so frequently, and see if you can find a way to address your concerns together.

Ultimately, the key to any healthy relationship is open and honest communication. By talking to your boyfriend about your feelings, you can work together to find a solution that works for both of you.

[Asker]

Nice but I want a human answer. This is AI.

[In_Trance]

Gnarly

[merrt_ordu]

actually you love him for being that person