Does my coworker fancy me?

[Anonymous]

I started a job 7 weeks ago and I work closely with a guy. I’m 28 and he’s 43. We are both married. He always gives me special treatment (makes me a coffee for when I get in the office for example) and I catch him looking at me when I’m across the office from him. He also said ‘I am quite happy being submissive’ after I joked that I am in charge. He plays my favourite radio station at work. Also his wife looks similar to me. Obviously not ever going to act on anything but do you think he might fancy me?

[spartan55]

Obviously you aren't going to act on anything, but I'm going to ask Reddit if a married guy fancies you, a married woman. Seems to be lots of women who have no shame, and just ignore the fact that they are married.
So, if you wouldn't do anything then why are you asking? You aren't fooling anyone, you are actually gross. Ask your husband if this guy likes you. He should be able to help you out.

[Iron_Man]

Well, he is not supposed to fancy you. He’s supposed to remain loyal to his wife and you’re supposed to remain loyalty to your husband. If you think even one percent that he likes you stay completely away from him. You’ll destroy your own marriage.

[Anonymous]

You wouldn’t bother to even ask if you didn’t have at least a little bit of crush on him. Maybe that makes you feel guilty I don't know, but regardless if I were you I wouldn’t be here even inviting people to plant that seed in my mind. I would just take it at face value which is a man being friendly, maybe too much of it but that’s how some people are.

[In_Trance]

Ask his wife
She would know for sure