Does my boss fancy me?

Question

I've worked for them for 9 years, but I left last year for another job then came back.

Me (25f) and him (38m) used to always have a laugh and a joke (he would always make them sexual) and have deep talks about my relationships (I'm single) and his marriage (he's married).

Before I left last year he said to me "would it be awkward if we had an affair?" I said "I don't know, probably" and was never mentioned since.

Since I've come back I've had a whole new computer with a second screen (I'm the only person with two screens now), new computer accessories and desk accessories. He keeps asking me if I want new things and buying me them.

He's always really close to me, like stood or sat, and he used to always make jokes about not being able to touch me, well today he playfully poked the top of my arm. I know it's not much but he's kinda breaking that barrier.

I think I may have caught him looking at my boobs (the shape of them, as I don't wear low cut tops).

I don't know whether I'm looking too much into it, but since I've been back he keeps buying me things and now he's broke the touch barrier.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I stopped reading after the “let's have an affair” comment. Yes, he does fancy you and is willing to destroy his marriage for a bit of young booty.
I would lay down the law and if it keeps happening (the sexual jokes and comments) I would report
him or leave the job for good. Who knows how many younger women he has slept with? His poor wife 😭

spartan55 · Accepted Answer

He probably would have bought new equipment for whoever the new employee was. So, why does it matter if your boss fancies you or not? You looking to be a homewrecker?