I dont understand his feelings.. Why is he act like this?

[Anonymous]

I have a crush on this guy, who is really a clumsy, silly. And i know that im only 13 years old, but in our school, most of the younger ones date in this age. So i assume that its ok for me? I don't know.. But back to the point, his friends always ask me questions like, do you think he is handsome? do you think he is cute? What do u thinks about him? which gives me an idea that he talks about me to his friends. I meann i dont know how im suppose to show him my feelings. His personality is more like cool, relaxed, guy. U guys know that there always is that one boy group who plays sports and they are really silly? He has that kind of personality which pushes me away from talking to him.

ALSOOOOOO, when we laugh with some of our friends, he looks at me yk? Like in this point, its looking right into my smile and he's kind of smirking as well. Some people say he always stares at me which i have caught a several of times in class.

Im planning to confess this year but when should i do it? I'll keep y'all in the loop and updating, spilling some tea.

[Anonymous]

It's understandable to feel unsure about someone's feelings, especially at your age when relationships and emotions can be confusing. Based on what you've described, it sounds like he might be interested in you too, especially if his friends are asking you questions about him. Here are a few steps you can take to try to understand his feelings and express your own:

1. Observe His Behavior: Pay attention to how he acts around you. Does he seem to look at you often? Does he smile or laugh more when you are around? Small signs can indicate his interest.

2. Talk to His Friends: Since his friends are already asking you questions about him, you could subtly ask them if he has mentioned you or what he thinks about you. They might give you some insights.

3. Start Small Conversations: Try to find opportunities to talk to him. It doesn't have to be about anything serious—asking about homework, a class, or a shared interest can be a good start. This can help you get more comfortable around each other.

4. Join Group Activities: If he plays sports or is involved in group activities, try to join in or be around when those activities are happening. It can create a natural environment for you to interact without the pressure of a one-on-one conversation.

5. Be Yourself: It's important to be yourself and not try to change to impress him. Show your genuine personality, as this will help build a real connection.

6. Express Your Feelings: If you feel comfortable, you could directly or indirectly let him know that you like him. This could be through a casual comment or a more direct conversation. For example, you could say something like, "I think it's cool how you're always so relaxed and fun."

Remember, it's normal to feel nervous and unsure in these situations. Take your time, and try to enjoy getting to know him better. Whether or not it leads to a relationship, these experiences can help you learn more about yourself and what you want in friendships and relationships.

[Asker]

Oh My Goshh!! thank you soooo much!! this means a lot for meee!! I have an update about this so why not check it out? I bet u won't regret reading my previous question.

[laraWM]

Just do it, you don't need a specific occasion

[Asker]

okay.. thanks

[Wise4myage]

Aren’t you too young to be dating?

[Asker]

Am I? I dont know...