Guys, Why is Boyfriend uninterested in sex after baby?

[Anonymous]

Is there something that happen to a mans brain after their girlfriends/wives have a child? He seems uninterested in sex and i don't think he's cheating... but maybe he is. I haven't had sex in over 12 months and my boyfriend is too busy for me. He also doesn't seem to understand why I'm sexual frustrated. I told him i was h*rny and he just asked why in a joking way, then that's as far as it went. We are home constantly but no interest.

Then i tell him I'm annoyed we aren't spending one together at all... he invites his females and male coworker over and just ignores me.. he doesn't seem to care that don't do anything together anymore and now with baby we can't. He Got an attitude with me because I'm upset about how boring the relationship is getting. Whats the point in being together?

[teamvic]

Hmmm was he there when you had that kid🤔

[Asker]

He was but i had a c section so he didn't see anything..

[teamvic]

Something mustve happened to where he's getting turned off by you or there's an image in his head that just doesn't want him to have sex with you

Out he feels bad about what to had to go through but I wouldn't think it's about that🤔

[DrPepper12]

12 MONTHS? You need a convo stat!! It's much more than the baby!!

[Asker]

Yeah well during pregnancy i had severe Pain but now it's been like 2 months since after i got pregnant

[DrPepper12]

Sit his ass down, tell him to STFU and tell your truth!!

[Asker]

He came around! I think he was just worried of hurting me. I had a c-section sounds like it scared him a little lol

[OddBeMe]

Uhh he not your mate no more.