What does it mean when the guy you spend a night with says he needs “closure”?

[Anonymous]

We didn’t sleep together, other things but I’m confused as to what he meant

[OfMiceandMen]

I have no clue, if he more or less just met you then there is no closure? Perhaps, he needs closure with respect to a girlfriend or something and before he sees you again he needs to end things with the other person?

[Asker]

No I’ve known him for over 2 years and he’s single

[OfMiceandMen]

Not sure where the closure thing comes in them, especially if you two were never really together. Sounds to me like you two only fooled around, nothing serious...

[Billlewis]

He may have just wanted to have sex with you and then end it.

[Asker]

We aren’t in a relationship and we both agreed there’s nothing more in it than just fun

[spartan55]

Closure? A man said this? Sounds like Mr Drama to me.

[Asker]

He did, yes

[spartan55]

I hope you laughed at him.

[diversethought]

He sounds like he wanted you as a girlfriend and not just sex. If that was his sexy way? To say Marvin Gaye's let's get it on, then he's dumb.

[Asker]

🤣🤣 I doubt he wants me as his girlfriend, he always told me he’s only after sex and that he’s a “bad boy” so I don't know

[Anonymous]

Have you been arguing? Maybe he wants to get along

[Asker]

Nope not at all

[Opinion Owner]

Oh ok

[In_Trance]

It means you need to ask the guy for clarification

[Asker]

I literally asked him what he meant but he didn’t answer