Why do some men love lusting after half naked women but would be devastated if their daughter or partner behaved similarly?

[Chelsdope0]

I don’t understand that…lmaooo

They know what men like evidently

[DishLady]

Lust by itself is a powerful feeling, but it is not an action. (So, just because a guy has feelings of LUST doesn't mean that he is willing to act on it.)

Of course if a guy's precious baby girl -- treasure of his life -- became the object of some jerk's lust... knowing what lustful feelings ARE, he would not want anyone feeling that towards his kid.

As for a partner... if other guys are lusting after a guy's partner, it's enough to piss them off whether the partner reciprocates or not.

[TonyMetal___86]

@DishLady well said miss dish, anyways a respectful man would only look on his wife if he's married and do not care about other women, also it's the man's responsibility to mke sure that his wife and daughter are safe and protected!

[CrabCakes11]

Because men want access to women’s bodies while simultaneously being disgusted at women for giving them what they want because they are misogynistic weirdos

[Juxtapose]

Not really, no. Most guys don't want to think of their family having sex and the horny part of their brain that makes them ignore their dislike of promiscuity is firmly turned off.

I don't care if women are promiscuous myself, but I do think I understand why these guys think the way they do.

[77five]

@Juxtapose read the stats on men being sexually attracted to their daughtefs

[CrabCakes11]

@Juxtapose cognitive dissonance

[Joshydavid25]

Most men aren't disgusted at it, they just want to protect their daughters so it has nothing to do with wanting to "control" or have access to women's bodies.. Man, college really is indoctrinating you..

[Juxtapose]

@77five you're the one making the claim, show me the evidence.

@crabcakes11 you women don't have that same possessive instinct because you are guaranteed to know the child inside of you is yours. Men have a greater biological incentive to be jealous.

Also I have heard that one reason people shun promiscuity is a mechanism to fight sexually transmitted infections and diseases. Oral sex or kissing even serves a purpose to check if the other person is diseased or not.

[CrabCakes11]

@Joshydavid25 I’m not in college lmao. Protect their daughters from what? Sexual agency?

[CrabCakes11]

@Juxtapose lol what? You can’t just make up baseless “theories” about social behavior based on evolution. It’s called evolutionary psychology, which is a pseudoscience bud.

[Joshydavid25]

I stand corrected then... And from a life of hurt and degeneracy ultimately resulting in demise.. That's what parents are for.. In the "Black" community you see what lack of fathers protecting their daughters does..

[CrabCakes11]

@Joshydavid25 lol what? I’m not black either? Are you going to just keep making guesses about me until you get something right? Or are you just going to admit you have no argument and that your worthless ad hominid attacks are a bad replacement for your misogyny?

[Joshydavid25]

No, I was mentioning that you see what lack of fathers teaching and protecting their daughters did for it.. I don't know how you where in my paragraph does it say that I was calling you "Black".. I mentioned the "Black" community because it was an example of my point..

[Joshydavid25]

I don't where in my paragraph does it it Mention me calling you "Black".. Also it seems like you are projecting since you are the one automatically throwing out the power play terms like "misogyny".. It's real easy to call anything you don't like misogyny without actually thinking on it.

[Juxtapose]

Evolutionary psychology is a valid science and it helps explains things like kissing which have no other explanation.

We don't do things by accident, we are programmed by natural selection to act a certain way and do certain things. We are still animals.

[Juxtapose]

*has no other explanation

[CrabCakes11]

@Joshydavid25 lol ok

[CrabCakes11]

@Juxtapose Evolutionary psychology is based on guesses and not real evidence or science. Kissing does have an explanation. People like doing it. It’s not to “check hormones” or whatever silly nonsense you think it is. We aren’t “programmed” for anything. Natural selection isn’t intelligent and the deity like status you apply to it shows you have absolutely zero grasp on it

[Joshydavid25]

My bad, I messed up both those paragraphs..

[Juxtapose]

Guys don't see family in a sexual way so the sexual part of them that can ignore promiscuity because they are horny is firmly turned off.

With their partner? They are monogamous. Pretty easy to see why a monogamous person would not want their partner to be sexual with other people.

[genericname85]

the beauty of life is that everyone can choose what to do with their own life. so enjoying the view of "some" girl making the poor decision to show her cunt online and that girl being your daughter are 2 entirely different things.

[genericname85]

or own partner. like i can laugh watching jackass where people hurt themself. that doesn't mean i want myself or my partner to be that dumb.

[prisoners_dilemma]

Men and women both underwent the process of evolution through natural selection, but the evolutionary pressures were unique to each sex to solve their specific problems. Men evolved to be visually stimulated when looking at women's bodies they found attractive. This means that the men in the past who were more stimulated by images had a higher fitness than men who weren’t and were more able to pass on their genes to future generations.

Now, why might they be devastated if their partner did something similar? It might signal their partner's desire to stray. Now, if this were identical to how men lust ( picture a woman with Playgirl magazine doing what a guy would be doing with Playboy), this would be as peculiar a behavior as a guy reading an entire bookcase of romance novels. I’m not saying that no one exhibits these behaviors, but they are in the minority of the consumers who purchased those products ( Playgirl’s primary consumers are gay men).

Men also never had parental certainty; every woman knows the child they gave birth to is theirs; men don’t have that luxury, so evolution had to develop ways to increase that certainty. This, in turn, made men today have a sense of entitlement over who could have access to the women in their immediate family. Let me state that I’m not condoning or excusing that behavior; I'm just explaining how it could exist from an evolutionary perspective.

[Agape93]

Hypocrisy. Same reason they'll say women are largely safe around random men, but tell their daughters all men want only one thing

[Apple1996]

I heard a quote recently that a daughter will always be her dad's karma. If he treated women badly, cheated, used strippers/hookers that's the same exact experiences the daughter will have with men in her adult life and the dad will have to sit back and watch it all even tho he was the same way to women.

On some level men gotta know this and they realize how bad they were and know that their daughter is gonna end up mistreated by men. It's all a vicious cycle

[desidoll]

I agree. My uncle used to have multiple affairs with younger women when he was in his 40s and now his daughter (my cousin) is with someone’s husband who is almost double her age. Almost all of the men she slept with have been older, married men. Karma is watching but it is just people are unaware of it.

[Chelsdope0]

Woooooow

Definitely karma

Thank god I’m not having kids

[EvaBos]

Because many people don't think about morality and solidarity to others as well. Others, meaning people outside the family. That's wrong.
As well, lot of men and less women has very big ego and big needs of dominating and territory. These men are really not normal and I don't think you want this kind of partner who can watch everyone and after that turn to you and say: hi sweety.

A mature person shouldn't even raise this kind of question. But if they want to be with an immature person then their relationship will be immature and hence of these immature questions.

[Joshydavid25]

Surprise, people are hypocrites.. Just like promiscuous women are the first to criticize or bully another woman if she thinks she's promiscuous.. Would a woman who likes looking at chiseled abs and reading kinky romantic novels approve her son of doing any of that? Probably not..

[Jackblue]

It is hypocritical, but it is also similar to when women including sometimes mothers like men who defy rules about healthy relationships (think of how Fifty Shades of Grey was mostly read by mothers), but would the women who read the book ever encourage their sons to act like Christian Grey, I doubt it.

[Jackblue]

Ultimately both men and women want a pure and wholesome family while dreaming of wild sexual adventures.

[alice55]

Actually mother don't give a shit how their son act around women, they only care about their son and hate all his girlfriend and treat them badly. Women doesn't raise their son to be gentleman at all, they mostly raise mama boy who treat all woman badly and their mother would always defend them against everyone like their son can do no wrong. They do not care at all about others women except their son well being.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Cause there hypocrites just like they talk shit about strippers and girls that have OF then you look in their phone and they'll have three separate subscriptions 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Yannae]

I don't care about someone flashing me. The one I really crave is my partner. And when she does it, it's private, just for me. I'd be disappointed if she did that all in the open, same with the daughter.

[Berethor]

For what it's worth many secular men don't mind if their daughter or wife wear a bikini.

[Chelsdope0]

Nope I’m not talking about bikinis

[msc545]

Women are allowed to wear bikinis. FFS what do you want them to wear - gunny sacks?

[Berethor]

They would wear burkini, just kidding, I am a secular man and I am not a muslim. :)

[TonyMetal___86]

Because a wife and a daughter are related to him and he has rights over them...
Personally i'd like all women to be modest, i means i'd like to stare when stranger women are wearing revealing outfits but would surely prefer if they are modest 🤣🤣

[Vegasrunner]

You don't understand why someone would view a stranger differently than their own blood relation. Would you be interested in providing and taking care of me when I get old?

[Chelsdope0]

I don’t think you’re understanding what I’m saying. Ik that a man should not look at his family that way unless it’s his partner but there’s something morally wrong with that… men know that it’s not right but they still indulge

[Vegasrunner]

@Chelsdope0 I understand exactly what you're saying hence my question which you were unable to answer. How someone perceives a blood relation vs a stranger is going to be complete different, by your logic a man should never be attracted to their wife when they wear sexy outfits? Also your use of morality is odd, what would he the moral issue w/ not wanting your child to not dress provocatively?

[Twalli]

Don't care if my girlfriend or wife does that. If I had a daughter, I'd prefer she not because I will still see her as a little girl. My girlfriend's dad had a lot of trouble seeing her as a grown woman when we started dating, she was 32 then.

[Caroline91]

Well, I can ASSURE you, I am NOT lusting after any half naked women!!

[MicahRaine]

lol W

[diversethought]

Depending on my daughter's age. My wife she can do whatever she wants. I'm not the Taliban.

[FunkyMonkee]

It's always okay in someone else's back yard but not in your own. Then, it's too personal.

[handsomelad70]

Boys being boys.(I don't agree with it;my partner could also enjoy looking at boyed-up lads if she wished.)

[Anonymous]

Because they aren’t related to them and don’t think of it in that way if it’s not someone they are close to

[DextroShade]

We will lust after those girls but we don't want them as wives.

[Imsmurter1]

I don't know but I think any women dressing half naked in public is kinda risky behavior.

[Slim57]

Because we're attracted to it but don't respect it therefore we wouldn't want someone close to us disrespecting themselves doing it

[Anonymous]

It's one thing for her to do it in front of her romantic partner and another if she is doing it on the internet for all to see.

[sheikalana]

They're hypocrites.

[MrZameer]

You watch porn, will you become a pornstar?

[Chelsdope0]

He’ll yeahhh lol

[Chelsdope0]

*hell

[MrZameer]

so you want to be a pornstar?

[Chelsdope0]

I’m debating but I def want to be a sex symbol of some sort

[MrZameer]

then you should show off your nude beauty to us poor guys lol

[Chelsdope0]

If I start my onlyfans I would love for you to be my fan 🥹

[Chelsdope0]

What kind of content are you into

[MrZameer]

Just boobs only lol 😂😂😂

[LiamJHayden]

A lot of people are hypocritical.

[sheenagwapa]

because of love

[alice55]

hypocrisy

[Jennz6]

Weirdo guys

[Loner111]

I don't know

[KrakenAttackin]

Basic human nature.