Why is he always pent up? What can I do?

[JaxiCats]

My fiancé (20m) and me (20f) have been together for 3.5 years now and we love each other but recently he’s been really pent up. At first it was because of work because we found out work causes him to be frustrated and that ends up turning into sexual tension. Recently however he’s been doing a lot, things like groping my ass around friends, trying to kiss my neck and constantly telling me how hard he is for me, I get that he’s attracted to me and all that but it’s getting annoying and I tell him that it’s bothering me because him being overly handsy isn’t helping anything. Telling him to stop however isn’t doing anything though because he’ll just end up doing it again anyway, like he’ll stop for the day but then continue a day or two later. It also makes him feel guilty which then leads to him not wanting to be affectionate at all so no hugs or kisses. I just have an issue with all the sexual advances. We talked about it in therapy but he’s still not seeming to catch the memo. I just want to be with him and do normal things like cuddle and watch a movie. He’s also offered to take care of himself but that leads to him being in the bathroom for an hour or two because it takes him longer to take care of it with just his hand.

[FunkyMonkee]

Unpent him. Do you keep him in the penthouse? Does he READ Penthouse?

[JaxiCats]

I try. I actively step out of my comfort zone to help him. If I’m not in the mood for sex but he needs it I try to give him a round or two but I end up spent physically trying to keep up with his sex drive…

[FunkyMonkee]

Can't you just lay there and let him go to town while you read a book?

[JaxiCats]

No unfortunately

[In_Trance]

Well.

[RedInnocent69]

Suck. His. Cock.

[JaxiCats]

I genuinely try to but I can’t keep my jaw open for long periods of time. It’s honestly a struggle especially since we been using tabs the past couple of months and I swear he thinks his dick is getting bigger (which doesn’t help me mentally while I’m giving him head).

[RedInnocent69]

I was being a bit facetious, but you don’t have to put the whole thing in your mouth, just lick and suck the head and let your hands do the rest. One on the shaft, one his sack.

[JaxiCats]

I do it that way because I like his reaction but even just the tip is hard to do sometimes. It’s not because I don’t want to suck but because my mouth is small ig but he’s been trying to train me so it’s more comfortable but then I just stop breathing for some reason😅 seriously though why is he so pent up every time I’m with him? Could it really be just from work? Or is that normal for a guy his age?

[RedInnocent69]

Oh, I’d say it’s pretty normal for his age. It’s also a compliment to you that he wants you so bad. I’m sure it’s a turn on watching you try so hard.