Why he said that he feels attached to me and want my attention but he is not showing too much effort?

[Anonymous]

Ik that guy online and we're friends, i sat boundaries and told him i only want platonic friendship, ngl we used to talk in stuff etc, now he just flirts sometimes, he said he wamt my attention but sometimes i feel like he is distant like he replies slowly or tell me he is going to sleep while he stays up late

[WhitneySnow]

He is losing interest because he feels like you’re not showing him enough attention. But if all he wants is attention you’re better off with a different guy anyway.

[Asker]

I'm showing him attention

[Asker]

But setting boundaries, and he always joke about me marrying him and i have nothing to say

[WhitneySnow]

He’s just being flirty. He really doesn’t want to marry you. You’re better off finding another guy if this one just wants attention.

[Asker]

I know, i told him we are just friends i dont even look for relationshipd

[WhitneySnow]

Good idea. Dont be afraid to block him if he gets too pushy.

[Asker]

No way i consider him a good friend, he supported me so much when i had no one to talk to about my problems, if he gets pushy i will see what i can do

[In_Trance]

He probably wants a Ferrari too but he's not doing anything about that either