The attraction was clearly mutual. Why this guy kept staring at me for several days without approaching?

[Anonymous]

I was on vacation and for several days met this guy at our hotel pool. All day he kept looking at me, sometimes the eye contact lasted for more than 5 seconds ant was intense. He always positioned himself so he could be able to see me clearly. Also as he passed by, he made very strong eye contact. It got to the point where my friend was even asking me what is the problem with him :D So the question is why was he doing that for so long and didn't aproach me. I was attracted to him

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Should i follow him on instagram or i will look like a creep?

[teamvic]

Perhaps he was shy to actually go up to you

Perhaps your signs weren't as obvious

My question to you, is why didn't YOU go up to him🤔

[Asker]

i was shy myself... but i did look and sometimes smile

[teamvic]

Seeee

Just because guys typically are supposed to do the approaching. Doesn't me we can't get nervous 😂. Why you think so many guys be lonely

[Asker]

Because i was really attracted and i thought he was good looking maybe he had a girlfriend at home. But then i think he won't be looking so intensely

[teamvic]

Unfortunately he can't read your mind ma'am

Even if you think you were making obvious signs

Maybe to him they werent

[DishLady]

If YOU were attracted to HIM why didn't you make a move -- at least wave him over if he was gawking at you.

[spartan55]

That's a great move actually.

[DishLady]

😉..

[Daniela1982]

Was married or already in a relationship. Or. . . a serial killer? They don't want to know their victims.

[spartan55]

Because you didn't show any interest.