How do men show love, how will I know he will stay after sexual intercourse?

[Anonymous]

Women get it confused when we may think a man desires us.. be it psychical & emotional. We may think he's in love when he's actually not & doesn't plan to stay after sex. So how do men show that they will stick around? How do they show love.

[ThaMaskedMarvel]

By being there after sex; showing actual commitment. Before that, you just don't know for sure. It's like in the movies when 1 person says "How do I know I can trust you?" & the other says "You don't (know that you can trust me)." You don't know until a later time, unfortunately. Not for sure.

[Asker]

That's what i was hoping someone wouldn't say... because the way my trust issues are set up lol

[Anonymous]

Make them wait. The more time he spends waiting, the more likely he is into you.

[BetaBucks]

The problem is that players have a rotation of girls. The few girls that had ever made me wait, saw me not pressure anything, but it's because I was smashing other chicks regularly. And a dude with no options isn't going to bail after sex whether it's after one day or one year.

But if you take your second sentence and swap out "with you" for "waiting" this would have been what would have exposed me back in the day. The ones that I wanted as girlfriends would see me 10x as much as the ones that I didn't plan to form a relationship with.

[LaurenM1997]

Well first of all don’t get with someone you’ve just met on a night out then go home and have sex with because that will be a one night stand go for someone who you get to know and go on a few dates then start doing that

[Rainbowxoxo]

He'll do the very thing that favors women, he'll propose and marry her without giving any hesitation, even if he's losing his freedom.

[Anonymous]

Men show their love by doing thing for their woman. As far as knowing whether he'll stick around, there is no easy answer to that. You need to use your judgment and intuition, and be honest with yourself. I will also mention that you need to be the kind of woman he can see himself marrying. Many (most?) women today and not that.

[edmwarrior]

I’m not like most guys I think, but I get nervous around someone I really like compared to someone I just want to sleep with.

[Asker]

So I should leave confident men alone?

[edmwarrior]

No, but I think if he’s a little bit too smooth, that might be a red flag

[edmwarrior]

Just wait for the contact after sex, whether that’s the next day or in 3 days. If he’s only contacting you for more sex, then he might see you as a booty call

[SotiCoto]

You don't know.
Unfortunately guys who only want the sex will pretend to go through the same motions as the guys who want a proper relationship... because it works. There is nothing that a serious guy who wants something stable can do that a profligate who wants a one night stand can't just copy to get at the goods.

[Billlewis]

You can simply withhold intercourse privileges, until you're comfy letting him have it.

[andreasderjuengere]

''Love'' isn't about staying.

It's about returning again and again :)

Bad news is: you won't know it in advance.

But if that helps you: we men are in exactly the same situation, more or less.

[BCRanger10]

"So how do men show that they will stick around?"

Simple. Marry him first.

[spartan55]

They will leave because they are so sick of hearing about it.

[Anonymous]

By being there BEFORE sex. That's why you don't sleep with a guy for a while. If he sticks around for months without having sex with you, it's a pretty good indication he's interested in you for more than just sex.

[jahaims]

Men aren't universal robots. Everyone shows love in different ways.

[Cheerfull009]

Do not trust men, after sometime, he will run for new taste and will get new partner

[Budheavy]

You have to take a chance.