How to interact now that he said he wants to continue?

[Anonymous]

I hooked up with my roommate a few months ago and it was incredible. After it happened, I gave it about a month mostly because I never have ever done anything like that before in the same space, especially with the kind of intensity that I felt, and after him texting me we will when I asked and he wants to. I spoke to him about it and he said he thought it was fun and he did want to continue but after we weren’t in the same flat, so he texted me after I left the same day, (it was a short term place while I got back on my feet.) And I messaged him asking if we should continue like he suggested, he said yes “when I’m in a more sexy mood yes I do want to.” I’ve texted him since and have deleted his number and run into him because we live in the same neighborhood. My question is, he always talks to me, always asks me questions and even when was with family introduced me, I don’t want to pursue anything I just want to experience him again, what is the best way to take control of the situation if I see him. I dont want to text him again because the last was me saying sometimes I’m not shy. When he sees me he still always stops and last time asked me about my roommates and how my apartment is. I would love to know what is a good move now?

[BetaBucks]

This is kind of hard to track... What I think you're saying is that you just want sex from him and nothing else? It's hard to guess what his intentions are because him talking to you doesn't say anything either way. If you want to shoot your shot, you're just going to have to send him a "want to hang out sometime?" type of text.

[Asker]

I was thinking of saying this, I don’t want a relationship with him, but saying this because it also is a power move and even if not I’m asserting the boundary

“ Hey, I still want it, and to start from where we left off. I u said u want to wait until you are in a more sexy mood but I need to know you want to too. So show me because I should be ravished lol”

[BetaBucks]

That's definitely a power move type of way to do it. I don't know the guy, but it could weird some guys out. Or turn some guys on. High risk, high reward, I guess.

[Asker]

Good news is if he doesn’t want to be a beta he’s gonna answer. This has to be it, I am hoping to say that in person if I can.

[BetaBucks]

Good luck...

[Asker]

Would you say to refrain and just leave it as is?

[BetaBucks]

No, I'd say that it's best to send a "hey, wanna hangout sometime?" type of text