Attorney said he had a crush on me last year. I added him on fb and sent topless pic while drunk. Could he still like me?

[Anonymous]

He just keeps blocking me I added him on fb, insta, twitter whilst drunk on a few occasions since I met him last June and on fb a topless pic saying “what would you do if I lifted my dress for you”

but he did say before all this in person if we had met another way I’m someone he could picture himself going out with, and he wishes we hadn’t met through those circumstances. My case is still ongoing (with his female colleague) is it possible he’s just blocking me to cover his own ass and may reach out eventuallY?

[Finchie40]

Maybe by you sending him topless pictures made him feel like you are to wild for his type , or it sounds like he is already seeing someone else and doesn’t want to be rude and disrespectful to you. But it sounds like to me, by you showing him topless pictures , made him see a side of you , that he wasn’t aware of, and now he is hesitant about whether he wants to date you or not. Most attorneys take their jobs serious and most of them act like their shit doesn’t stink , Most attorneys want a girl that he has full control over and a girl that is proper to him. I have a few male attorney friends that only date girls’ that they feel is proper , that they can easily control and tell her what to do , what to wear , what she can eat etc.. if she doesn’t do what he tells her , he will dump her for someone else. Honestly I feel bad for those girls’ that fall for that shit , but most of those girls’ see money and a rich lifestyle , so they don’t hesitate to be controlled. It’s pretty sad to watch to be honest with you. But she is too stupid to realize what she is getting herself into. Money doesn’t bring happiness and money has nothing to do with Love. Only selfish people thinks it does

[Asker]

But he knew I flashed the police whilst intoxicated and would still stutter and blush and get. Nervous. But I hear. What you’re saying even more so, that photo could’ve been enough to completely deter him because he might’ve thought one time is a mistake but then doing that is okay a no no. I think I will move on and focus on making better decision’s and meet a guy organically, let him pursue me and keep my morals

[Finchie40]

Trust me there are a lot of guys’ that would be turned on from seeing topless pictures of a girl they are interested in , so don’t change who you are as a person just because some stuck up lawyer guy didn’t follow through with you , there are plenty of fish in the sea and you will eventually meet a good one that accepts you for who you are. It’s the chances most of us take in the dating world , I had my fair share of bad seeds , so hopefully I will find a good one here one of these days. All we can do is keep trying until we find a good one.

[OlderAndWiser]

Our rules of ethics prohibit him from engaging in a relationship with you. You should leave him alone.

[Asker]

I understand which is why I switched attorneys (Same firm, different employee.) after he told me he wishes we had met under other circumstances. Just a pity I had a drinking problem and would message him. I’m getting better though. Always a possibility he may reach out when my case is over and finished for good.. no?

[OlderAndWiser]

Possible. That does not mean probable.

[Asker]

But he was into me and I just shown him all the goods

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe he is looking for a girl who doesn't send topless pics to guys.

[Booklover_90]

Leave him alone. Please. The fact that he’s blocking you should tell you something. Regardless of his reasons, leave him alone.

[Asker]

I know, I’m just curious because he’s the one that changed our dynamic by admitting to his crush I do feel terrible though, I just really liked him and regretted not telling him I felt the same back

[Booklover_90]

Do you really think a relationship could’ve happened here? I mean, seriously. If he was your attorney, a romantic relationship would’ve been inappropriate anyway.

[Asker]

I changed attorneys after he told me that….. well if a relationship is unrealistic him telling me he liked me seems weird

[DishLady]

No… he’s blocking you bc you’re becoming a psycho….

[Asker]

That’s why I stopped drinking. What’s so bad about it

[DishLady]

Are you kidding? Read your post again and then tell me.

[Asker]

Maybe I’m desensitised to it atp I mean I have a friend that FaceTimed her dads friend and flashed her whole naked body

[DishLady]

Another psycho. That's not a point of reference.

[Asker]

What do I do? It’s kinda living rent free in my head that someone I initially made a good impression on likely now thinks I’m an obsessive lunatic

[Makeushiver]

My guess is #1 based on whether he is married or not. If Y his spouse likely found out about the women he was sexting and he's trying to impress her by blocking you. Let it go is probably best course of action

[spartan55]

Your judgement regarding guys seems to never get any better.

[Asker]

Giving up alc helped

[spartan55]

Did it? Sending nudes to your attorney?

[Asker]

It was about two months ago

[spartan55]

I guess that makes it okay then. 🙄

[Asker]

I’m not saying it’s okay, I’m confident with my body and he’s a guy, it doesn’t hurt anyone? Apart from potentially my reputation if he told anyone. Do you think he thinks I’m a weirdo now

[spartan55]

Yeah probably

[Asker]

Well I can be sad he inevitably will always avoid me bc I shown some serious signs of insanity OR laugh it off and focus on coming across better to new people. There’s a small chance he knows it was a mistake bc he did seem to think he “knew” me. But I guess overthinking it is dumb

[DryGermanGuy]

@BrunetteFromHell
You just don’t learn, do you? 😕

[Asker]

Helll is harsh? He started on me by telling me he had a crush

[DryGermanGuy]

Which is probably his standard sales pitch towards any somewhat attractive woman. No need for you to turn into a loose nude cannon. Pleeeeeze.

[Asker]

I know that’s why I stopped drinking

[Asker]

Do you think he thinks I’m crazy now and isn’t interested? Or he’s covering his ass

[Asker]

What do I do? It’s kinda living rent free in my head that someone I initially made a good impression on likely now thinks I’m an obsessive lunatic

[DryGermanGuy]

Yes! He thinks you are crazy now because guess what, you acted crazy! And with your current obsession you are even continuing it. Do you want him to get a restraining order against you? For a lawyer that’s probably ten minutes of work.

[Asker]

Should I just block him on any other social media platform he might’ve not covered and leave him alone. He was into me so I hoped maybe when my case is finished he’d be back

[DryGermanGuy]

Do both yourself and him (and us) the favor and delete him completely from your mind.
As a friendly hint, the next guy you meet socially, do not try to smother him with your femininity. Let the guy have some room to move and breathe.

[Sharkstealth]

Elsa Jean was divorced from two different marriages before becoming a porn star. One of which was an attorney.

[Asker]

How is this relevant?

[Sharkstealth]

Because you sent a topless picture and you said "What would you do if I lifted my dress for you?" to your attorney. You are also young hitting on your attorney.

[Asker]

I will say I can appreciate a person who brings a sense of humour to a embarrassing situation

[Danny_dan92]

What…




The actual…




Fuck…

[Asker]

It’s not that shocking

[Danny_dan92]

To me it is

[Asker]

Why?

[Danny_dan92]

Because it is

[Asker]

My friend FaceTimed her friends dad and flashed her whole naked body is that not worse

[Danny_dan92]

Fuck it. Let it rip.

[Asker]

What do I do? It’s kinda living rent free in my head that someone I initially made a good impression on likely now thinks I’m an obsessive mental patient

[Danny_dan92]

Just tell him you want him to take your pussy to trial. I don't know

[Asker]

i’ll just mature up and move on from the L

[Danny_dan92]

There you go, good decision

[legalboxers]

[Asker]

What?

[nawtee_me]

Topless pics will get you blocked by a lot of people….

[Staximus]

Sounds like you blew your chance.

[Asker]

But if he was pretty fond of me couldn’t he still be into me?

[Staximus]

You sent him revealing pics and said "what would you do if I lifted my dress for you”. You are no longer a serious option, you put yourself in the "fuck and duck" category

[Asker]

Learn from it, accept the L and move on? If he respected me and taken himself seriously he probably wouldn’t have flirted with me days before my trial anyway. In his office he said “would you mind lifting your top up now” when i told him i flashed a cop, and somehow dodged an idescent exposure charge

[Anonymous]

of course

[Asker]

sarcastic?