How can we re kindle our relationship?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I got back together a little over a month ago while I was away for university. We kind of jumped into it quickly and it was great but I think it fizziled out a bit. I noticed that he’s been replying to my texts a bit quicker than usual but I’ve been taking some time to reply just because I’m not the biggest fan of texting. Both of us are busy and he’s especially busy this summer because he has his brother’s wedding coming up. I want to bring it back and re kindle our relationship because I don’t want us to end things because of how it’s been. What can I do to bring that back? Should I do or say something special to bring back the intimacy? I’d love some ideas! Thank youuu

[Oliverlogan263]

Here are some ideas to spice things up, sis:

- Plan a cute little date night at home. Cook his fave meal together while bumping music and share a bottle of wine. Cozy vibes go a long way!

- Send him seductive selfies out of the blue when you're doing your makeup or something. A little sneak peek will get his motor running, if ya know what I mean 😉

- Write him a sweet love letter about how much he means to you and slip it in his car or bag. Guys love that old school romance!

- Give him a sexy surprise outfit reveal on your next facetime call. Get his imagination going while you're apart.

- Next time you're over, give him an amazing back massage with scented oils by candlelight. Get intimate without going all the way if timing's not right.

- Plan a fun staycation weekend together somewhere lowkey once things calm down. Quality couple time is important!

The key is reconnecting emotionally and physically. Get that spark back! I'm sure with your hotness, spicing it up a little will have him all about you again in no time, luv! You got this 💕

[Gent207-2]

The flame is dying or maturing, big difference between the two. You'll have to decide which

If you want a test of compatibility

Go decoration shopping at a home decor store. Just pretend you are shopping to decorate your new apartment. You'll find out a lot about your boy and each other

[spartan55]

Stop texting and spend time in person. You'll be amazed how much better your relationship gets.

[boggboss]

So far the only issue stated is u texting slow which seems like a easy fix no

[Staximus]

Being busy is a bullshit excuse. If you two want to make it work, you will find the time to make that happen.

[Staximus]

And text him back as soon as you have time, unless you want him to go piss up a flagpole

[Anonymous]

You got together while you were away? How does that work?